Anonymous
Post 06/08/2024 05:56     Subject: Our son just told us he's trans

I know it feels hard, but can you not overthink it ? what does it change ? not much really
Anonymous
Post 06/06/2024 14:10     Subject: Our son just told us he's trans

Anonymous
Post 05/28/2024 17:25     Subject: Our son just told us he's trans

Anonymous wrote:Start by moving away from “son” and “he” assuming they are M to F. Then start by asking what support they need.



This issue of pronoun is really fascinating and interesting. In my African native language there is no he or she. We only have they. And further the language is only spoken and not written. But in English this issue is really a hot button issue.
Anonymous
Post 05/13/2024 02:17     Subject: Our son just told us he's trans

Treat your son as you would normally treat him. Listen to his feelings, but remember that you're the adult here. Don't let him be influenced by the wrong people both in-person or online.
Anonymous
Post 05/11/2024 11:41     Subject: Our son just told us he's trans

Just don’t do anything stupid. In fact, you don’t have to do anything. Just accept it and follow their lead. Do what they tell you.
Anonymous
Post 04/27/2024 16:02     Subject: Our son just told us he's trans

If you’re in the DC area rainbow families can also be a good resource for socializing with other queer families.
Anonymous
Post 04/27/2024 14:19     Subject: Our son just told us he's trans

Thanks all
Anonymous
Post 04/27/2024 14:16     Subject: Our son just told us he's trans

Anonymous wrote:Yes, we were supportive and accepting...just not sure what we are trying to accept. DC is 17 and did not elaborate on any details about what they mean exactly. Though we have gay friends I don't think I have any T friends and just don't know who to ask about this.


Look up PFLAG. Very helpful resources. At this phase, follow your child’s lead. That’s all you need to do at this point
Anonymous
Post 04/27/2024 14:13     Subject: Our son just told us he's trans

Yes, we were supportive and accepting...just not sure what we are trying to accept. DC is 17 and did not elaborate on any details about what they mean exactly. Though we have gay friends I don't think I have any T friends and just don't know who to ask about this.
Anonymous
Post 04/27/2024 14:09     Subject: Our son just told us he's trans

The number one thing is support. Use the pronouns they ask you to as a starting point. Help them get supportive counseling. Are you in DC? Whitman-Walker is a good resource.

Anonymous
Post 04/27/2024 14:04     Subject: Our son just told us he's trans

How old are they?
Ask them what it means to them
Whether it’s a phase or not, be supportive and stay connected.
Anonymous
Post 04/27/2024 14:02     Subject: Our son just told us he's trans

Anonymous
Post 04/27/2024 14:01     Subject: Our son just told us he's trans

How old?
Anonymous
Post 04/27/2024 14:01     Subject: Our son just told us he's trans

Start by moving away from “son” and “he” assuming they are M to F. Then start by asking what support they need.

Anonymous
Post 04/27/2024 14:00     Subject: Our son just told us he's trans

Our son just told us that he is trans. What does that mean? This is an honest question. Please help us parents.