There are different kinds of abuse, physical and mental. I don’t know them, but from the reporting of peg her as a physical abuser and him as more of a psychological abuser.

Sounds to be that they both had issues so it is hard to say which one was more abusive than the other

Anonymous wrote:but I do not believe it I think she was the abuser who set him up
what do you think?

Call me.

He started it, then she fought the abuse.

I forget, did they have kids?

Based on testimonies of his exes, he has never been an abuser. Bed shitter, on the other hand, has been known for it.

I certainly think he did.

She married a drug-addled man who was not able to be an attentive, respectful, husband. She lashed out. He responded.

They are both very much at fault. He being the older one by far, bears some responsibility for not seeing where it would go and cutting it off early at the pass.

This case has been discussed at nauseam, OP. You and your husband both sound very stupid.

They were both abusive to each other. She however, goaded him into it. I don't think if he were sober he'd abuse anyone.

I think your DH wants to get with Amber

I definitely don’t think her story at trial of him graping her with a broken liquor bottle was true. I think she provoked him often and abused him and yes he may have hit back once or twice. Not okay, but I don’t think he was the abuser.

What does living in Hollywood having anything to do with this?

I think it was a toxic relationship and they were both abusive towards one another.

But based on what came out in court, I think it arose from her. I don't think he's innately an abuser; and I think that she is. I think he will go on to have abuse-free relationships. I do not think that she will.

I think both were toxic, abusive, and guilty

He obviously did.

but I do not believe it I think she was the abuser who set him up
what do you think?