Anonymous wrote:I don’t know the answers to all of your questions, OP, but as the mom of a dyslexic 17 year old I’d just say you are going to need to do all of the outside OG tutoring - as much as you can afford and she can tolerate. School will never provide what she needs. Never. Fight the good fight, sure, but meanwhile do at least 2xweek with an OG tutor.
Accommodations are important in middle school and beyond, but for now just remediate.
How is her spelling? In third grade they started doing spelling bees and tests, and the one accommodation that I am very grateful we asked for and got was no graded or public spelling. It just made him so embarrassed and angry that it make him hate school.
Kid with a different disability, but yeah, this. Especially as they get older.
The one thing we hold onto the IEP for is to get better communication with the school and assignments modified as needed. For example, if writing is time consuming in MS and HS, the IEP can specify that assignments come home to be finished there without penalty. We are also working on getting busy-work homework removed from some subjects so we can spend the time at home working on the core learning needs. With ADHD in the mix, the need for this coordination and flexibility will increase.
If she cannot produce enough writing in class right now, even if they won’t give her the kind of tutoring she needs, they could do pull-outs with an ELA sped teacher so she can work on the assignments with 1:1 or small group support.