Anonymous wrote:I just don’t have a lot of post divorce dating experience. This was my first relationship and the first time dating since the early 2000s.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Yes. It feels binary. I just feel like men nowadays want to have their cake & eat it too. They enjoy the stability and benefits of monogamy but add cheating to the mix because they have endless opportunities to do so.
I don't think that men who are divorced with kids generally view their post-divorce relationships as monogamous. They've already been married, now they're single. At most, you're their go-to or their number one option. I wouldn't get so emotionally invested in them.
Really?? Maybe you are right.![]()
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Yes. It feels binary. I just feel like men nowadays want to have their cake & eat it too. They enjoy the stability and benefits of monogamy but add cheating to the mix because they have endless opportunities to do so.
I don't think that men who are divorced with kids generally view their post-divorce relationships as monogamous. They've already been married, now they're single. At most, you're their go-to or their number one option. I wouldn't get so emotionally invested in them.
Anonymous wrote:You trust him or you don’t.
Anonymous wrote:Yes. It feels binary. I just feel like men nowadays want to have their cake & eat it too. They enjoy the stability and benefits of monogamy but add cheating to the mix because they have endless opportunities to do so.
Anonymous wrote:Due to our respective custody schedules. When we have our kids we focus on them, and see each other in our noncustodial weeks.
I should caveat that we matched on FB dating, so I knew what the original profile looked like, and knew what he changed
Anonymous wrote:Not a troll post.
Boyfriend of one year agreed we are exclusive. We texted all day, saw each other 5-6x per month, and called regularly.
Come to find out, BF has a OLD account (FB dating). Was super upset when I found it.
I saw that he didn’t update any pics - but, he had updated sections of the profile within the time we are dating.
I confronted him about it & he immediately said he doesn’t use the account and deleted it. He didn’t have a good reason for updating the profile during the time we dated.
I just struggled to believe him. We definitely love each other but I just didn’t buy that the OLD profile was not being used because i pictured him getting notifications regularly.
What would you have done in my situation?
He told me he loves me and would never cheat on me, and that he never cheated on me![]()