Anonymous
Post 04/11/2024 20:06     Subject: Re:coed sleepovers

Absolutely not in no lifetime
Anonymous
Post 04/11/2024 20:02     Subject: coed sleepovers

Anonymous wrote:There's another family in the neighborhood that we're close with and the kids have been asking for a joint sleepover.

4 kids from 6 to 9, 3 boys, 1 girl

Would you allow this?


Younger than 10? I dont see the issue. Once they start hitting puberty its a different issue.
Anonymous
Post 04/11/2024 19:48     Subject: coed sleepovers

Anonymous wrote:OP here and we could fit them all in one room, or we could separate them for sleeping if that was preferred.

Like the PP mentioned, these kids have grown up together and they're like siblings.


Really don’t think it’s an issue either way. Maybe the girl would prefer more privacy— you could ask.
Anonymous
Post 04/11/2024 19:28     Subject: coed sleepovers

Anonymous wrote:How old is the girl? If not the oldest then probably not.


She's 9
Anonymous
Post 04/11/2024 19:21     Subject: coed sleepovers

How old is the girl? If not the oldest then probably not.
Anonymous
Post 04/11/2024 19:16     Subject: coed sleepovers

OP here and we could fit them all in one room, or we could separate them for sleeping if that was preferred.

Like the PP mentioned, these kids have grown up together and they're like siblings.
Anonymous
Post 04/11/2024 18:02     Subject: coed sleepovers

Yes I would do it! I remember doing coed sleepovers around that age. The coed thing stopped by middle school— then I just lots of all girls sleepovers!

What is the issue?
Anonymous
Post 04/11/2024 17:57     Subject: coed sleepovers

What’s the problem?
Anonymous
Post 04/11/2024 17:55     Subject: coed sleepovers

no
Anonymous
Post 04/11/2024 17:54     Subject: coed sleepovers

Anonymous wrote:My DD9 has had a bunch of sleepovers with one of her oldest friends (a boy her age) and his younger sister. Never been an issue!


Similar situation, we've done that too. Now approaching puberty maybe would think twice, but these kids grew up together like siblings.
Anonymous
Post 04/11/2024 17:44     Subject: coed sleepovers

Totally would allow.
Anonymous
Post 04/11/2024 17:41     Subject: coed sleepovers

My DD9 has had a bunch of sleepovers with one of her oldest friends (a boy her age) and his younger sister. Never been an issue!
Anonymous
Post 04/11/2024 17:12     Subject: coed sleepovers

No. We don’t do co ed sleepovers, and it would be sad for the girl to be asked to sleep upstairs or separate if all her friends are sleeping together.
Anonymous
Post 04/11/2024 16:19     Subject: coed sleepovers

No absolutely not.

Sleepover is not necessary.

All boys and one girls again no.

Who does this...
Anonymous
Post 04/11/2024 16:18     Subject: coed sleepovers

There's another family in the neighborhood that we're close with and the kids have been asking for a joint sleepover.

4 kids from 6 to 9, 3 boys, 1 girl

Would you allow this?