Anonymous wrote:If you can easily afford it, which you say you can, let your daughter pick.
I agree with this. I also think that if you were not upfront with your daughter about cost when she applied, that it’s sort of cruel to take away her top choice given you can afford it. In other words tell her before applying that you’re not paying $91k a year so she can only go if she gets merit. I will also say I have never heard of Whitman despite already going through the college process once with my oldest but I have hear very good things about Colorado College.