Good for you, OP. Make him figure it out.

Anonymous wrote:And what happens when he doesn't step up? And you get fired? You two are too stupid to be raising children.

The I will get divorced with zero regret and get another job.

Anonymous wrote:I do not undertand disconnecting your direct deposit. They will mail you a check? What does that change?

+1 please explain this!

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Anonymous wrote:Because I wanted another baby, being a mother is the joy of my life. My kids will be very well loved no matter what happens.

You should downsize your house and other expenses now. Your dh's hobby job salary will have to support you all for a long time, apparently. Good luck.

I offered to move back into a rental house we own to lower our expenses. He declined.

What does disconnecting the direct deposit do?

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Anonymous wrote:I do not undertand disconnecting your direct deposit. They will mail you a check? What does that change?

Op is pretty dumb, I think that much is obvious

From our joint account, obviously.

And what happens when he doesn't step up? And you get fired? You two are too stupid to be raising children.

Anonymous wrote:Because I wanted another baby, being a mother is the joy of my life. My kids will be very well loved no matter what happens.

You should downsize your house and other expenses now. Your dh's hobby job salary will have to support you all for a long time, apparently. Good luck.

Anonymous wrote:I do not undertand disconnecting your direct deposit. They will mail you a check? What does that change?

Op is pretty dumb, I think that much is obvious

So…he’s a professor?

This reads like a troll.

I do not undertand disconnecting your direct deposit. They will mail you a check? What does that change?

Because I wanted another baby, being a mother is the joy of my life. My kids will be very well loved no matter what happens.

Why would you get pregnant with this guy a second time? You know what he is by now, makes no sense. Poor kids.

I am 32 weeks pregnant. I have a 3 year old. I hate my demanding job. My not high earning husband is about to start a year sabbatical, and I will have 5 months fully paid leave plus bonus. We have 2 years of living expenses in liquid savings.

So I disconnected my direct deposit and I am quiet quitting at work until whenever I get pushed out for prioritizing being a mother and self care.

My husband can use his sabbatical to figure out how to improve his income to cover our full living expenses because I am done subsidizing his hobby job.

Thanks for listening and go ahead and flame away.