Anonymous wrote:Most kids with this choice - who are in state - have a very clear understanding of where they fit best. He literally doesn't? I mean they are quite different. My two who chose UVA liked W&M but felt it was not quite the right social, and rah rah type school for what they wanted, so it was the second choice. I'm 100% sure they would have been fine at either. W&M is also more expensive and farther from home (and way more annoying to get to), so that was a small ding against it.
It is not that he doesn't see one as a better fit, it is that he isn't prioritizing fit. He's very driven and just feels like the social stuff will be fine anywhere and just doesn't want to list that as a factor. FWIW, I think W&M is a better fit. They are pretty comparable distance and moneywise for us.