Anonymous wrote:I guess about a 5. I feel pretty neutral about his looks. I don’t know that it was ever a lot higher than that.

I am 43. He is 46.

So you married a 5 in looks? What about him is a 10 for you?

I guess about a 5. I feel pretty neutral about his looks. I don’t know that it was ever a lot higher than that.

I am 43. He is 46.

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He is a jerk

Mostly 5-6, sometimes 8-9. He is a good person and an involved dad. He’s not super affectionate towards me, which kills the attraction.

A 5 on a good day, down from a 7 due to weight gain but also he has become more withdrawn generally. He is an amazing partner in life and the best dad to our kids, so I try to keep things in perspective.

We are in our 60s so the physical side of it isn’t what it use to be though our love life is still very active. But he’s still a 10 for many reasons. We’ve been together 40 years and I know we can’t live forever.

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Anonymous wrote:A ten. He’s 42. I’m 39.

What makes it so high?

He has really warm eyes, when he smiles it lights up a room, he has great hair, he looks amazing in a T-shirt (posture +muscles), he’s confident without being cocky, he’s kind (to me sure, but also other people), like a thousand other things.

When it’s just us and we’re making out a 10. I feel bad about this but my attraction goes down in social situations because he’s so quiet and awkward. He’s 46 and I’m 41, together 1 year.

Was a 9, but he cheated so now it's a solid 0. He disgusts me

Visually 10 but after 5 minutes of talking it goes to around 2

Anonymous wrote:A ten. He’s 42. I’m 39.

What makes it so high?

10
54 and 50
He is model material and not sure why he’s with me but sure am glad he is!

A ten. He’s 42. I’m 39.

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Scale of 1 to 10. And how old are you both? Know this must vary for people.