Anonymous wrote:All of the above.
+1! I read the op and I was, Yes!
I think part of it is your age and where you are in life. Divorced at 50, not interested in dealing with another man, certainly don't want to raise stepkids. Have my own kids I don't want to take time from, and of course I'm not birthing anymore kids. I have a good career, aging parents, and am thinking about my own eventual retirement.
If I had been, say, 30 when I divorced, I might have felt different. I would have wanted more kids probably (and I prefer to be married to have had them).
I'm not lonely. I have adult kids and a minor child still (1 adult and the minor kid live with me). My parents and sibling, cousins...I work, volunteer/church a lot, even got a cat lol. My life is full, and I hope to have grandchildren, and to be an involved grandmother. I want to help their parents like my folks helped me with my kids over the years.
So no, no need nor desire to remarry.