You win for dumbest post OP.

Anonymous wrote:Thanks for your analysis shallow Cal.

34+ women are likely paying on the AP to get preferential access to what the AP mistook as better matches.

What?

So you have a sample of let me guess 4 dates and you came up with this conclusion ?

As mid 40s woman I go out with 30-45 yo men pretty often. But unfortunate observation: all men under 40 for some reason have very poor dental hygiene!

I wonder if it’s mine sensitivity to smells and bad luck, or a generational thing

Men 45+ are very diligent about their mouth and teeth

Anonymous wrote:Not convinced this is a troll post.

Rather,

34+ women on OLD are probably far more desperate than the younger women on OLD.

I would say the opposite if over 40. Don’t need to be desperate. We have our own money.

Has nothing to do with age. I am 46 and go out with men aged 31-38 all the time. They always want second dates and more.

You have just had weird dates.

Not convinced this is a troll post.

Rather,

34+ women on OLD are probably far more desperate than the younger women on OLD.

Low expectations meets low expectations all the time. Enjoy your cool girl dates and wait till you get burned.

My favorite part was the menu story but altogether it was a lot of reading for minimal payoff.

This has got to be a troll post.

Are you going to perform a T-test, OP?

This may be the dumbest post I've ever seen on DCUM

Thanks for your analysis shallow Cal.

34+ women are likely paying on the AP to get preferential access to what the AP mistook as better matches.

All 34+ dates also asked for a second date but I didn’t follow up.

Hi All!
I started dating the last few months and noticed something quite interesting.

For context I’ve never dated women over 34 before, but have recently upped the age range since I am now in my mid 30s.

Every date with someone that was 34+ seem to have a quirk.

I had my age range set to 24-39, I learned the app favors 34+ range which I’ll expand on later.

My first few weeks of dates were all 34+. At first I thought it was bad luck and I was getting some bad dates. Additionally I was only seeing 34+ aged women and getting likes from 34+ aged women. I couldn’t believe how bad the dates were.
First there are a lot of old photos being used…. Then they all seem to have a mix of expecting me to take charge, order for them, take care of them, or pay for them.

Here’s an example: (most of my dates are variations of this)
One date when she arrived, I handed her a menu and she just sat there waiting until I opened up the menu for her and walked her through it. (Ordered for her as well)

Furthermore they seemed to have this jaded perspective, glazed eyes, and low energy.

I also thought it was quite odd I was only seeing and getting likes from older women. So I lowered my range and set it as a dealbreaker for 24-31 and it became an entirely different app.

It was a game changer and the quality of the dates improved dramatically. It was like day and night. And they looked like their pictures!
My dates with 24-30 year old women were fun, chill, energy being given from both sides, exciting, and engaging!

I’m sure I’m going to get flak for this post but man it’s a shame.

Honestly it makes sense, the bar is set higher I think at an older age, there are more expectations, the women are probably dating men in their 40s and 50s.

It makes me sad though because I think they are all genuinely good people.