Anonymous
Post 03/22/2024 16:44     Subject: Question to moms only
If you don't want her to stay the night you could suggest a late over until about 10pm?
Anonymous
Post 03/22/2024 16:41     Subject: Question to moms only
Hard no
Anonymous
Post 03/22/2024 16:40     Subject: Question to moms only
OP. I certainly wish the mom had told me that the other girls won’t be there before I said yes to my DD. Now she’s justifiably upset.
Anonymous
Post 03/22/2024 16:39     Subject: Question to moms only
Not a new friend, no. But our existing friends, yes. I trust all the fathers in our small circle of friends.
Anonymous
Post 03/22/2024 16:39     Subject: Question to moms only
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Why is this a question addressed only at moms? Are fathers not capable of evaluating the risks?

What is your impression of that family? If they are trailer trash, I wouldn't let her sleep over even if the mom were present. If it is an educated, reputable family, I would let her sleep over.


You certainly don’t know how to evaluate risks. You’d probably have your fourteen year old sleeping over Jeffrey Epstein’s house if he had a daughter, you’d be so dazzled by his educated mansion owning self.


OP. This. I don’t think money has anything to do with it.
Anonymous
Post 03/22/2024 16:38     Subject: Question to moms only
Anonymous wrote:My daughter’s best friend has a single father. I never worried when she slept over.



You presumably know the father.
Anonymous
Post 03/22/2024 16:37     Subject: Question to moms only
Anonymous wrote:Why is this a question addressed only at moms? Are fathers not capable of evaluating the risks?

What is your impression of that family? If they are trailer trash, I wouldn't let her sleep over even if the mom were present. If it is an educated, reputable family, I would let her sleep over.


You certainly don’t know how to evaluate risks. You’d probably have your fourteen year old sleeping over Jeffrey Epstein’s house if he had a daughter, you’d be so dazzled by his educated mansion owning self.
Anonymous
Post 03/22/2024 16:37     Subject: Question to moms only
Anonymous wrote:why did the others bail?


One girl I do t know, the other one - the mom gave me like 5 reasons, none of which being an actual reason. So I don’t really know.
Anonymous
Post 03/22/2024 16:36     Subject: Question to moms only
Anonymous wrote:Why is this a question addressed only at moms? Are fathers not capable of evaluating the risks?

What is your impression of that family? If they are trailer trash, I wouldn't let her sleep over even if the mom were present. If it is an educated, reputable family, I would let her sleep over.


They are wealthy but I don’t know them. I met the father for all but 1 second and have never met the mom.
Anonymous
Post 03/22/2024 16:34     Subject: Question to moms only
My daughter’s best friend has a single father. I never worried when she slept over.

Anonymous
Post 03/22/2024 16:32     Subject: Question to moms only
why did the others bail?
Anonymous
Post 03/22/2024 16:31     Subject: Question to moms only
Yes
Anonymous
Post 03/22/2024 16:28     Subject: Question to moms only
Why is this a question addressed only at moms? Are fathers not capable of evaluating the risks?

What is your impression of that family? If they are trailer trash, I wouldn't let her sleep over even if the mom were present. If it is an educated, reputable family, I would let her sleep over.
Anonymous
Post 03/22/2024 16:28     Subject: Question to moms only
Nope.
Anonymous
Post 03/22/2024 16:21     Subject: Question to moms only
Would you let a young teen sleep over at a new friend’s house when only the father is present? Mom is traveling. At first it was supposed to be a group of girls but the other ones aren’t joining after all.