I had the same experience. I think she is a talented writer who knows how to write comedy well. And although I don't have anything in common with her background---e.g., my grandmother was not taking me to brunch at the Ritz or Plaza or anything---that's not usually a requisite for me to appreciate a book. But she came across as having absolutely NO awareness that her background is privileged or not universal, and I think there are ways she could have acknowledged that in a funny way. There was something very entitled to her writing but I can't quite pinpoint it.