Anonymous wrote:He never initiates sex. I have not had sex in over five years.

He can’t fix anything. He is physically weak.

I don’t think he loves me. He’s just too tired to divorce me.

I don’t think I love him. I am too poor to divorce him.

For you and others whose husbands are like this, why did you marry him? If he’s physically weak, can fix anything, doesn’t have ambition, is lazy……were there any warning signs?

Anonymous wrote:He sounds like a feminist.

This. Careful what you ask for

He sounds like a feminist.

I’ve been depressed and lonely recently because I’m coming up on the 10th anniversary of my divorce and I’m sad to admit I’ve not had a romantic relationship since. However, this post reminded me that I was a “dud” husband which is why I got divorced in the first place if I am being honest with myself. So in a way I guess I and any woman I might have encounter(ed) are better off for my so I should count my blessings.

Anonymous wrote:Same with the sex but mine could fix anything so there was that. We got along fine although I did not like the no sex. I initiated for awhile but eventually gave up and that was the end of that. I waited a few more years until the kids were grown and then divorced. We are both happier now.

What helped you wait those years? I am in similar boat. Counting down but need some tips to make it till they go to college.

Are you woman enough?

Welcome the the average man's world!

This is my life but with my wife. No sex drive and is frumpy all the time. We are in our 40s and she acts like she is 70.

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Plus one here too. So tired of no sex and also the lazy no effort phase he is in. He does nothing but breath….loudly

Same. Could have written this myself. My husband has no drive in anything. He can't communicate, can't solve problems and just doesn't care. He's a passive husband, father and friend.

Same with the sex but mine could fix anything so there was that. We got along fine although I did not like the no sex. I initiated for awhile but eventually gave up and that was the end of that. I waited a few more years until the kids were grown and then divorced. We are both happier now.

OMG!

Mating in Captivity. Please read this book. Please get marriage counseling.

Same here, OP, same. Even his stupid lopsided gait pisses me off.

Sigh, it’s been a long week. Maybe we’ll feel better tomorrow.

He never initiates sex. I have not had sex in over five years.

He can’t fix anything. He is physically weak.

I don’t think he loves me. He’s just too tired to divorce me.

I don’t think I love him. I am too poor to divorce him.