Anonymous
Post 02/29/2024 22:54     Subject: You meet someone you like through OLD. How soon would you consider sleeping with them?
Anonymous wrote:Assume two middle-aged adults, neither with kids at home anymore.


Immediately? What kind of question is this?
Anonymous
Post 02/29/2024 22:16     Subject: Re:You meet someone you like through OLD. How soon would you consider sleeping with them?
3rd date
Anonymous
Post 02/29/2024 22:10     Subject: You meet someone you like through OLD. How soon would you consider sleeping with them?
Anonymous wrote:Once exclusive

+1. I ain't easy, but I'm worth it.
Anonymous
Post 02/29/2024 22:10     Subject: You meet someone you like through OLD. How soon would you consider sleeping with them?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Well it was about 4-5 hours into the first date for me.


Nasty


Frigid
Anonymous
Post 02/29/2024 22:09     Subject: You meet someone you like through OLD. How soon would you consider sleeping with them?
Met casually someone on a second date to hookup. Sex was bad and since it was casual it wasn't even emotional. Vowed not to do that again, cried afterward, he was polite and everything but I just felt trashy.

Next person I went on 3 dates and we texted/talked a lot in between, I think it was maybe early November to around Christmas. Only slept together once before I ended up breaking it off. Not enough time knowing each other to be good sex, but much better than the hookup.

Last one was maybe date 5, about a month in. We are in a relationship now.

Anonymous
Post 02/29/2024 21:47     Subject: You meet someone you like through OLD. How soon would you consider sleeping with them?
As soon as he rolls up in that Hyundai SUV
Anonymous
Post 02/29/2024 21:39     Subject: You meet someone you like through OLD. How soon would you consider sleeping with them?
Anonymous wrote:Well it was about 4-5 hours into the first date for me.


Nasty
Anonymous
Post 02/29/2024 21:32     Subject: You meet someone you like through OLD. How soon would you consider sleeping with them?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:This again?

Whenever you decide you want to. I do not understand why people play games with this.


This.

You want him to stick around? Make sure you’re a good sex partner.

(I’m a hetero woman.)


Exactly. Don’t be cruel to you both by stringing it out when you might be sexually incompatible. It will just make you force it to fit the false connection and then you both waste years to be in pain. Play and see if you like it. If not, see ya later.
Anonymous
Post 02/29/2024 21:29     Subject: You meet someone you like through OLD. How soon would you consider sleeping with them?
Anonymous wrote:This again?

Whenever you decide you want to. I do not understand why people play games with this.


This.

You want him to stick around? Make sure you’re a good sex partner.

(I’m a hetero woman.)
Anonymous
Post 02/29/2024 21:27     Subject: You meet someone you like through OLD. How soon would you consider sleeping with them?
This again?

Whenever you decide you want to. I do not understand why people play games with this.
Anonymous
Post 02/29/2024 21:14     Subject: You meet someone you like through OLD. How soon would you consider sleeping with them?
Once exclusive
Anonymous
Post 02/29/2024 21:11     Subject: You meet someone you like through OLD. How soon would you consider sleeping with them?
Is there any norm about this?
Anonymous
Post 02/29/2024 21:08     Subject: You meet someone you like through OLD. How soon would you consider sleeping with them?
Well it was about 4-5 hours into the first date for me.
Anonymous
Post 02/29/2024 21:08     Subject: You meet someone you like through OLD. How soon would you consider sleeping with them?
You're an adult. First date if that's what you both want
Anonymous
Post 02/29/2024 20:58     Subject: You meet someone you like through OLD. How soon would you consider sleeping with them?
Assume two middle-aged adults, neither with kids at home anymore.