Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:We've been married 30-some years, I don't think marriage is hard. it's the best thing there is. it can be hard if you put yourself first.

Do you always put yourself last? For instance, if your spouse is gone for half the month and then spends their free time when they are back with their friends. Is that okay with you? Is that how you made it work?

something like that have never happened to us so hate to speculate.

Hmm. So you/your spouse never traveled. Did you have deadbeat in-laws nearby? If so, how did you handle that?

Get your meds straight before posting.

Anonymous wrote:I had a marriage that was hard because we were not well- suited. I’m now almost 20 years married to the greatest partner I could hope for and I would never ever call it hard. It’s easy when all the pieces fall into place. Maybe the timing was right.

If you could elaborate on that, it would really be appreciated. It’s okay if you don’t want to.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:We've been married 30-some years, I don't think marriage is hard. it's the best thing there is. it can be hard if you put yourself first.

Do you always put yourself last? For instance, if your spouse is gone for half the month and then spends their free time when they are back with their friends. Is that okay with you? Is that how you made it work?

something like that have never happened to us so hate to speculate.

Hmm. So you/your spouse never traveled. Did you have deadbeat in-laws nearby? If so, how did you handle that?

I had a marriage that was hard because we were not well- suited. I’m now almost 20 years married to the greatest partner I could hope for and I would never ever call it hard. It’s easy when all the pieces fall into place. Maybe the timing was right.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:We've been married 30-some years, I don't think marriage is hard. it's the best thing there is. it can be hard if you put yourself first.

Do you always put yourself last? For instance, if your spouse is gone for half the month and then spends their free time when they are back with their friends. Is that okay with you? Is that how you made it work?

something like that have never happened to us so hate to speculate.

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Anonymous wrote:Marriage is hard if you don’t marry the right person.

x10000 Life is short, OP. Finc someone that wants to understand you, and that actually cares about you - not just your paycheck.

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Anonymous wrote:We've been married 30-some years, I don't think marriage is hard. it's the best thing there is. it can be hard if you put yourself first.

Do you always put yourself last? For instance, if your spouse is gone for half the month and then spends their free time when they are back with their friends. Is that okay with you? Is that how you made it work?

Anonymous wrote:Marriage is hard if you don’t marry the right person.

x10000 Life is short, OP. Finc someone that wants to understand you, and that actually cares about you - not just your paycheck.

Lack of communication, different priorities, unwilling to be vulnerable.

We've been married 30-some years, I don't think marriage is hard. it's the best thing there is. it can be hard if you put yourself first.

Marriage is hard if you don’t marry the right person.

It's also very soft sometimes

Communication

Anonymous wrote:This is a common phrase. What makes marriage hard to you?

Why don’t you go first?

This is a common phrase. What makes marriage hard to you?