Anonymous wrote:My son doesn’t have the sensitivity and anxiety issues you have, but he is classic adhd asd in that his attention to hygiene and executive functioning is terrible. We went down the ortho path despite having seemingly pretty good looking teeth. The herbst part was fine but what I am most annoyed about is that no one told me about the excessive daily hygiene expectations until after the equipment was in. How you need to do ten minutes a day of oral care, and once the braces are removed they have to wear a daily retainer for six months plus a nighttime one forever. I told them during the interview process that he is severely adhd. I have no idea why they thought an 11 year adhd boy was going to spend ten mins a day on hygiene and not lose his retainer in the first week. The ortho was like “then this will just have to be on your list of parent stuff every day” to which I thought, the ortho must not have an adhd or asd kid because my list of parenting stuff is already out the wazoo. I practically have to remind ds to go to the bathroom at least once a day. Had I known the expectations, we would have skipped it. Now I’m sure that when the braces come off, he will have severe permanent staining, and that he’ll stop with the retainer in days - which means everything will move around negating all the work. Anyway just something else to think about to make sure you really need this work done.
Anonymous wrote:I'm very mistrustful of orthodontists. One highly regarded one was pushing phase 1 treatment, and I went for a second opinion who said he didn't need phase 1 and may not even need phase 2. We are not looking for perfect teeth for our child with ASD - just to treat any necessary bite issues. Make sure that the provider is looking at the whole child.
Anonymous wrote:My son doesn’t have the sensitivity and anxiety issues you have, but he is classic adhd asd in that his attention to hygiene and executive functioning is terrible. We went down the ortho path despite having seemingly pretty good looking teeth. The herbst part was fine but what I am most annoyed about is that no one told me about the excessive daily hygiene expectations until after the equipment was in. How you need to do ten minutes a day of oral care, and once the braces are removed they have to wear a daily retainer for six months plus a nighttime one forever. I told them during the interview process that he is severely adhd. I have no idea why they thought an 11 year adhd boy was going to spend ten mins a day on hygiene and not lose his retainer in the first week. The ortho was like “then this will just have to be on your list of parent stuff every day” to which I thought, the ortho must not have an adhd or asd kid because my list of parenting stuff is already out the wazoo. I practically have to remind ds to go to the bathroom at least once a day. Had I known the expectations, we would have skipped it. Now I’m sure that when the braces come off, he will have severe permanent staining, and that he’ll stop with the retainer in days - which means everything will move around negating all the work. Anyway just something else to think about to make sure you really need this work done.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:To the pp, the Window for an expander is short. You can’t do an expander at 14/15/16.
Op - My son had a retainer expander that we turned w a key when it wasn’t in his mouth. Perhaps that might be an option? He could’ve done the more permanent one or the retainer and opted for retainer bc of fears. my daughter’s dental issue required the full expander. I’d ask them about the retainer option and if they say no, call around and see if others can do that on this situation.
OP here. This is what they had said we could do, so I’m surprised they’re now saying he’s getting the usual one with the key stick. I’d rather he wear it longer than go through anxiety every day. He’s had food issues too, so a device that causes trauma may cause him to lose weight he shouldn’t be losing at his age.
Anonymous wrote:To the pp, the Window for an expander is short. You can’t do an expander at 14/15/16.
Op - My son had a retainer expander that we turned w a key when it wasn’t in his mouth. Perhaps that might be an option? He could’ve done the more permanent one or the retainer and opted for retainer bc of fears. my daughter’s dental issue required the full expander. I’d ask them about the retainer option and if they say no, call around and see if others can do that on this situation.