Anonymous
Post 02/25/2024 14:21     Subject: Can I wear white to a male gay spring wedding?

No.
Anonymous
Post 02/25/2024 14:04     Subject: Can I wear white to a male gay spring wedding?

Why do people hem and haw about wearing white to a wedding? There are so many other colors!!!! Just pick something else and wear the blazer to a different event.
Anonymous
Post 02/25/2024 14:02     Subject: Can I wear white to a male gay spring wedding?

Anonymous wrote:No. It’s a wedding, not a “male gay” wedding. You don’t wear white to a wedding.


+1
Anonymous
Post 02/25/2024 14:00     Subject: Can I wear white to a male gay spring wedding?

Anonymous wrote:There is no bride. The males being married will be in suits. As a woman attending, could I wear white? I have a white tuxedo blazer that I want to wear over a dress.


White blazer at a gay wedding? That’s a no from me, dawg.
Anonymous
Post 02/25/2024 13:57     Subject: Can I wear white to a male gay spring wedding?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:No. It’s a wedding, not a “male gay” wedding. You don’t wear white to a wedding. [/quote]

+1



Also, you don't know if one of the men might wear a white suit or tux. I've seen it happen.
Anonymous
Post 02/25/2024 13:57     Subject: Can I wear white to a male gay spring wedding?

Anonymous wrote:No. It’s a wedding, not a “male gay” wedding. You don’t wear white to a wedding. [/quote]

+1
Anonymous
Post 02/25/2024 13:56     Subject: Can I wear white to a male gay spring wedding?

Why don’t you ask your friend getting married, both grooms probably know the dress code since there’s no bridezilla involved.
Anonymous
Post 02/25/2024 13:54     Subject: Can I wear white to a male gay spring wedding?

White hardly looks good any people anyway. Just choose a freaking color or pattern!
Anonymous
Post 02/25/2024 13:53     Subject: Can I wear white to a male gay spring wedding?

The question is: will the bridegrooms be wearing white? Lol!
Anonymous
Post 02/25/2024 13:41     Subject: Can I wear white to a male gay spring wedding?

While I think it’s less of a faux pas than at a straight wedding, I would still say no to white unless you have a clear accent of color (shrug, shawl, skirt, dress is not plain white). Otherwise it would still look weird.
Anonymous
Post 02/25/2024 13:40     Subject: Can I wear white to a male gay spring wedding?

Anonymous wrote:There is no bride. The males being married will be in suits. As a woman attending, could I wear white? I have a white tuxedo blazer that I want to wear over a dress.

Yes. It is fine.
Anonymous
Post 02/25/2024 13:33     Subject: Can I wear white to a male gay spring wedding?

No. It’s a wedding, not a “male gay” wedding. You don’t wear white to a wedding.
Anonymous
Post 02/25/2024 13:33     Subject: Can I wear white to a male gay spring wedding?

If the grooms are wearing black or gray, I think it's o.k. Light blue...hmmm. White tuxes themselves...then no for you.

The main point would be whether you would be confused with a bride. Low chance of that in this case. But you still might get photographed with one of the grooms alone. And you might want a copy of that pic.

Ask a groom and see if they care. Follow their advice.
Anonymous
Post 02/25/2024 13:30     Subject: Re:Can I wear white to a male gay spring wedding?

No. Don't wear white to a wedding. It's too "look at me!"
Anonymous
Post 02/25/2024 13:28     Subject: Can I wear white to a male gay spring wedding?

There is no bride. The males being married will be in suits. As a woman attending, could I wear white? I have a white tuxedo blazer that I want to wear over a dress.