Seems like it’s one extreme or the other - either they can’t stop thinking about it or they’re not interested at all.

Anonymous wrote:Happily married 40 year old woman here. I’ve been with my husband for 13 years, we have kids together and a great life. However, he literally wants to have sex every day and when we aren’t having sex I can tell he wants to or is thinking about it. Is this normal? Don’t get me wrong - I love him and all that, but with both of us working from home now for YEARS since the pandemic, I find it annoying. I wouldn’t have to deal with this if I was going into an office. There are so many things on my mind (big and small) and again, we have a good sex life, but are all guys like this? I’m starting to wonder if he needs a hobby or more stress in his life. His job is very low stress.

I dunno, that sounds excessive. My husband isn't like that. I acknowledge there is a range and nothing inherently wrong with thinking about sex all the time, but I'd honestly hate it if my husband was like that. My husband does have a stressful job though.

Are all of us that way? No. Would I like to have daily sex? Absolutely. (44M)

My husband would be happy to have sex 1-2 times a week but I want it every day, multiple times if he can manage. It’s me, hi. I’m the horndog, it’s me.

My husband wants to have sex every day, but he also thinks about other things. There are other things that matter to him.

* love sex.

That’s why I can’t remarry. I just can’t live with someone knowing that that is what they want 24/7. I hate the feeling of being together and knowing that is ALL they are thinking about. I feel like a piece of meat. I used to live sex. Marriage ruined it for me.

OP here. Haha he does! I need the weather to warm up so he can leave again. 😂

Anonymous wrote:Can he take up golf? He needs a hobby to get out of the house.

I'm sure there is a massage place nearby.

No, mine wasn’t at all.

Can he take up golf? He needs a hobby to get out of the house.

No

It’s normal and it’s also normal to not want it nearly as often. Just as with any other human characteristic, there’s a range.

Yes.

Next question.

Happily married 40 year old woman here. I’ve been with my husband for 13 years, we have kids together and a great life. However, he literally wants to have sex every day and when we aren’t having sex I can tell he wants to or is thinking about it. Is this normal? Don’t get me wrong - I love him and all that, but with both of us working from home now for YEARS since the pandemic, I find it annoying. I wouldn’t have to deal with this if I was going into an office. There are so many things on my mind (big and small) and again, we have a good sex life, but are all guys like this? I’m starting to wonder if he needs a hobby or more stress in his life. His job is very low stress.