Anonymous
02/17/2024 22:01
Subject: Would you date a man who
I would save all my money. Get a nest egg in case it goes south and you need a buy a place ASAP.
Anonymous
02/17/2024 21:58
Subject: Re:Would you date a man who
Yes, but I would not quit my job or have a child with him. I would save all the money I would have paid for housing.
Anonymous
02/17/2024 21:48
Subject: Would you date a man who
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I would date him but I wouldn’t move in to house I have no rights to.
What do you mean by "rights" - it seems to me that you'd be paying no rent that that would give you the "right" to save and invest the money you'd otherwise have to spend on rent/mortgage. That's gonna be 20-30k a year right there.
Assuming I would be contributing to the household in some form, so I would want the house to be mine also.
Let’s not assume unless you are op and are posting this.
Anonymous
02/17/2024 21:43
Subject: Would you date a man who
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I would date him but I wouldn’t move in to house I have no rights to.
What do you mean by "rights" - it seems to me that you'd be paying no rent that that would give you the "right" to save and invest the money you'd otherwise have to spend on rent/mortgage. That's gonna be 20-30k a year right there.
Assuming I would be contributing to the household in some form, so I would want the house to be mine also.
Anonymous
02/17/2024 21:40
Subject: Would you date a man who
If you’re not married and living there why would you be on the deed?
Do you pay a nominal rent or cover some of the annual upkeep and property taxes?— sounds like No.
If you don’t want the live together in the house the location, tell him to rent it out and find a better location.
Do you pay a nominal rent or cover some of the annual upkeep and property taxes?— sounds like No.
If you don’t want the live together in the house the location, tell him to rent it out and find a better location.
Anonymous
02/17/2024 21:25
Subject: Re:Would you date a man who
Why would you have equity in the house if you didn’t put money into it? Not marrying you and him paying for everything is a different issue.
Anonymous
02/17/2024 21:14
Subject: Would you date a man who
Anonymous wrote:I would date him but I wouldn’t move in to house I have no rights to.
What do you mean by "rights" - it seems to me that you'd be paying no rent that that would give you the "right" to save and invest the money you'd otherwise have to spend on rent/mortgage. That's gonna be 20-30k a year right there.
Anonymous
02/17/2024 21:11
Subject: Would you date a man who
I would date him but I wouldn’t move in to house I have no rights to.
Anonymous
02/17/2024 21:11
Subject: Would you date a man who
Anonymous wrote:No, I date for marriage and I have my own money. I don’t want to live in a house I don’t have any rights to.
How old are you?
Anonymous
02/17/2024 21:09
Subject: Would you date a man who
No, I date for marriage and I have my own money. I don’t want to live in a house I don’t have any rights to.
Anonymous
02/17/2024 21:08
Subject: Would you date a man who
Does he have kids? That's a reason why he might not want to marry again.
You can always invest in other ways. Just don't quit your job.
You can always invest in other ways. Just don't quit your job.
Anonymous
02/17/2024 20:57
Subject: Would you date a man who
How old are you and how old is he? Do you work FT and have your own income?
Anonymous
02/17/2024 20:53
Subject: Would you date a man who
Not sure why you’d live with him if you’re not married.
Anonymous
02/17/2024 20:50
Subject: Would you date a man who
Call me.
Anonymous
02/17/2024 20:49
Subject: Would you date a man who
Paid for everything and wanted you to move in with him but wouldn’t marry you or allow you any equity in the house you both live in?