Anonymous
02/15/2024 20:16
Subject: “I don’t work here” rude?
Anonymous wrote:I have to assume she thought you meant you didn’t work in that section or something because otherwise that response was bizarre.
This is the only scenario where her response makes a little sense. Because why would she accuse you of not helping her find an employee otherwise.
Anonymous
02/15/2024 20:16
Subject: “I don’t work here” rude?
Anonymous wrote:Today I was in Sephora browsing. I had a bunch of stuff in my hands and I had a handbag. A woman said to me “excuse me, do you have this in ____ color”. I looked up, realized she was talking to me and said “Sorry, I don’t work here”. She replied, “you don’t have to rude, can you just point me in the direction of someone who does work here?”
I told her that I haven’t seen anyone who isn’t already helping someone and then I walked away.
I’m not exactly sure why/how I was rude but I’m also on the spectrum and have issues with understanding social cues at times. Advice?
Not rude and you would have been well within your rights to tell her that you don't work for her either.
Anonymous
02/15/2024 20:15
Subject: “I don’t work here” rude?
You sound lovely and she is so insanely rude and obnoxious!
I also wondered about your races and whether that was a factor.
I also wondered about your races and whether that was a factor.
Anonymous
02/15/2024 20:14
Subject: “I don’t work here” rude?
She probably has a form of dementia.
Anonymous
02/15/2024 20:13
Subject: “I don’t work here” rude?
I'd tell her to f off.
Anonymous
02/15/2024 20:05
Subject: “I don’t work here” rude?
Was she white, you POC?
Anonymous
02/15/2024 19:55
Subject: “I don’t work here” rude?
I have to assume she thought you meant you didn’t work in that section or something because otherwise that response was bizarre.
Anonymous
02/15/2024 19:49
Subject: Re:“I don’t work here” rude?
You did nothing wrong and a normal person would have said "Oops, sorry!", not expected you to find her an employee!
Anonymous
02/15/2024 19:48
Subject: “I don’t work here” rude?
She was rude. I wouldn’t have pointed her to the “right person” either. Both times, you don’t work there.
Anonymous
02/15/2024 19:47
Subject: “I don’t work here” rude?
Lol, the only polite response to someone saying "I don't work here" is to say oops! Nevermind! I am so sorry!
She was def the rude one
She was def the rude one
Anonymous
02/15/2024 19:45
Subject: “I don’t work here” rude?
You don't work there, you have no obligation to help her in any way nor should you be expected to.
Anonymous
02/15/2024 19:45
Subject: “I don’t work here” rude?
You’re fine, OP. She should have been the one to apologize, not you.
Anonymous
02/15/2024 19:45
Subject: Re:“I don’t work here” rude?
She was rude 1000%. You were not.
Anonymous
02/15/2024 19:44
Subject: “I don’t work here” rude?
She was rude, not you.
Anonymous
02/15/2024 19:43
Subject: “I don’t work here” rude?
Today I was in Sephora browsing. I had a bunch of stuff in my hands and I had a handbag. A woman said to me “excuse me, do you have this in ____ color”. I looked up, realized she was talking to me and said “Sorry, I don’t work here”. She replied, “you don’t have to rude, can you just point me in the direction of someone who does work here?”
I told her that I haven’t seen anyone who isn’t already helping someone and then I walked away.
I’m not exactly sure why/how I was rude but I’m also on the spectrum and have issues with understanding social cues at times. Advice?
I told her that I haven’t seen anyone who isn’t already helping someone and then I walked away.
I’m not exactly sure why/how I was rude but I’m also on the spectrum and have issues with understanding social cues at times. Advice?