Anonymous wrote:We are saving about 70k a year in retirement including employer matches. Mid/late 30s.
Pathetically not saving much other than that at the moment due to high expenses. But we have a good nest egg from our pre-kid years and much of that is invested.
We spend about 120k annually on things like private school for 2 kids in elementary school and preschool, childcare, summer camps and vacations. Those are our biggest luxuries.
Around 50k on mortgage and taxes. Another 50k slowly doing necessary renovations to our old home, some invisible things like new plumbing and other things like renovating very old bathrooms but doing them nicely. We are almost done and only anticipate smaller projects in the next few years.
Then just life is expensive- we spend a lot on food and restaurants (36k), health insurance (subsidized by employer), gifts for family, charitable donations, home cleaning 2x monthly, utilities, car payments, clothing (mostly gap and jcrew type brands), gas, home stuff at target, outsourcing landscaping, and things for our kids. We rarely go to concerts or spend money on entertainment.
HHI is around 480-500 gross.
I should add that grandparents have funded college savings for kids and fortunately will receive a large trust from our family so while we do save well for retirement, we will also receive a large trust at some point. Private school would not be possible if we didn’t have family funding college and providing a big cushion for retirement.