Anonymous wrote:They do have a lot of similarities. If you’re interested in the differences, I would say size (Haverford is smaller), location (Hav has a lot more retail and restaurants in walking distance and is near a main artery and very close to Bryn Mawr and Villanova, Swarthmore is more in a in a suburb/village).
Both have Quaker roots, but Haverford was part of an orthodox branch of Quakerism while Swarthmore was part of a reform branch and was coed very early on. I’m not sure this would affect your experience today at all but it is why there are two Quaker schools in close proximity. Growing up (I’m Quaker) all the Friends we knew had gone to Swarthmore and Haverford was considered a bit “different”.
I think the tininess of Haverford could be hard if you don’t find your people. It’s very diverse racially and has a lot of first gen students and its social justice reputation is real. Last year when I toured with my kid it was the only school that started the tour with an acknowledgement of stolen land AND made us wear masks on the tour even while outside. To me it felt a bit much.
Interesting, I was a member of 15th st meeting and my general impression was that Haverford was the one that was more Quaker currently. Maybe Swarthmore had moved farther away. Kind of a WestTown vs George School thing.
My kid wouldn't get into either and I don't know how I'd choose between them if they could. I would also find the acknowledgement of stolen lands to be too much, although I'm into the mask-wearing. Doesn't hurt.