Anonymous
Post 02/12/2024 21:23     Subject: I can have a woman with a good career or good looks but not both
Can you burn off the fat? Find time to exercise more?
Anonymous
Post 02/12/2024 21:22     Subject: I can have a woman with a good career or good looks but not both
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:You are shallow


Yes. Everyone is though. I don’t think I’ve met a single person who doesn’t value shallow traits.


You don't get out much.


I feel like the people who get out the most are the most shallow
Anonymous
Post 02/12/2024 21:21     Subject: I can have a woman with a good career or good looks but not both
I think you should focus on yourself. There is a lot of interventions for your face or whatever.

If a you already have a choice of women, it sounds like a correctable problem. Or may you can find other ways to compensate/ off set your issues
Anonymous
Post 02/12/2024 21:21     Subject: I can have a woman with a good career or good looks but not both

Sure, if I were a billionaire I would probably not care too much about my partners income. I’m just upper middle class, not broke by most people’s standards but not so rich that I wouldn’t benefit from a second mid 6 figure HHI.


Why would a mid 6 figure attractive woman date you, OP? You're shallow, so even if someone overlooked your looks, you won't offer her much depth, anything interesting, or materially improve her life bc someone making that much with depth knows they don't need more money.
Anonymous
Post 02/12/2024 21:20     Subject: I can have a woman with a good career or good looks but not both
I would go with the not-cute woman, since in the end if we are lucky to get old none of us will be that cute anyway, and you can just have sex in the dark and imagine she’s cuter.
Anonymous
Post 02/12/2024 21:19     Subject: I can have a woman with a good career or good looks but not both
Anonymous wrote:Can you get surgery to take off the features?


Not an option unfortunately
Anonymous
Post 02/12/2024 21:18     Subject: I can have a woman with a good career or good looks but not both
Anonymous wrote:Are you, not cute...and broke? Sorry, seems like that's what you're describing because if you were financially sound, their bank accounts wouldn't matter. If you had more assets, you'd have more options, considering that looks can't change.


Sure, if I were a billionaire I would probably not care too much about my partners income. I’m just upper middle class, not broke by most people’s standards but not so rich that I wouldn’t benefit from a second mid 6 figure HHI.
Anonymous
Post 02/12/2024 21:17     Subject: Re:I can have a woman with a good career or good looks but not both
Plastic surgery.
Anonymous
Post 02/12/2024 21:17     Subject: I can have a woman with a good career or good looks but not both
Can you get surgery to take off the features?
Anonymous
Post 02/12/2024 21:17     Subject: I can have a woman with a good career or good looks but not both
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:You are shallow


Yes. Everyone is though. I don’t think I’ve met a single person who doesn’t value shallow traits.


You don't get out much.
Anonymous
Post 02/12/2024 21:16     Subject: I can have a woman with a good career or good looks but not both
If you can afford a cute broke woman, I think you're golden, OP. I'm cute and haven't worked in years. DH is fine with it.
Anonymous
Post 02/12/2024 21:15     Subject: I can have a woman with a good career or good looks but not both
Anonymous wrote:You are shallow


Yes. Everyone is though. I don’t think I’ve met a single person who doesn’t value shallow traits.
Anonymous
Post 02/12/2024 21:15     Subject: I can have a woman with a good career or good looks but not both
Are you, not cute...and broke? Sorry, seems like that's what you're describing because if you were financially sound, their bank accounts wouldn't matter. If you had more assets, you'd have more options, considering that looks can't change.
Anonymous
Post 02/12/2024 21:13     Subject: I can have a woman with a good career or good looks but not both
You are shallow
Anonymous
Post 02/12/2024 21:13     Subject: I can have a woman with a good career or good looks but not both
Not complaining just saying. I can attract women who are either cute but broke with no career prospects, or have a good career but aren’t conventionally attractive. This is because I’m not a terribly attractive man myself due to some genetically determined features that I can’t control (being vague here on purpose).

I have dated both types but I find myself happier with the cute broke women. Why is this?