Anonymous
Post 02/09/2024 20:03     Subject: Why would my husband need an HIV test?
I got one years ago for a China visa. Not sure if any countries still require it.
Anonymous
Post 02/09/2024 20:02     Subject: Why would my husband need an HIV test?
Insurance makes the most sense to me.

If someone was hiding something, I doubt paperwork about an HIV test would make it into the house or really past the first garbage can outside the lab’s door.
Anonymous
Post 02/09/2024 19:59     Subject: Re:Why would my husband need an HIV test?
Check his Google account history to see if he has downloaded Grindr if he has an android. Also see if he's on sniffies. You can do that on a browser. It will show a map of who is nearby.

Signed, a single mom who noticed her ex was on HIV prevention meds recently
Anonymous
Post 02/09/2024 19:55     Subject: Why would my husband need an HIV test?
Anonymous wrote:Maybe he’s a hypochondriac.


If that was the case, OP would have already heard he planned to take the test. And it probably wouldn’t be his first one.
Anonymous
Post 02/09/2024 19:53     Subject: Re:Why would my husband need an HIV test?
You know why
Anonymous
Post 02/09/2024 19:53     Subject: Why would my husband need an HIV test?
Maybe he’s a hypochondriac.
Anonymous
Post 02/09/2024 19:53     Subject: Why would my husband need an HIV test?
Anonymous wrote:He gay


This.
Anonymous
Post 02/09/2024 19:50     Subject: Why would my husband need an HIV test?
Life insurance can require proof of HIV status.
Anonymous
Post 02/09/2024 19:45     Subject: Why would my husband need an HIV test?
Is he a scientist or doctor? My friend's father pricked himself with a patient's needle in the hospital. Patient was HIV+. Thankfully the test was negative.
Anonymous
Post 02/09/2024 19:43     Subject: Why would my husband need an HIV test?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Maybe he was just curious?


This makes no sense.


I tried.
Anonymous
Post 02/09/2024 19:43     Subject: Why would my husband need an HIV test?
Anonymous wrote:Maybe he was just curious?


This makes no sense.
Anonymous
Post 02/09/2024 19:42     Subject: Why would my husband need an HIV test?
Anonymous wrote:Most likely because you’re not in monogamous relationship of 20 years. He’s traveling for work? Go get an std panel.


Yes. Get checked. Don’t say anything to him about it. Observe with your eyes wide open for the next few weeks. See if you notice anything. Use your intuition.
Anonymous
Post 02/09/2024 19:27     Subject: Why would my husband need an HIV test?
Most likely because you’re not in monogamous relationship of 20 years. He’s traveling for work? Go get an std panel.
Anonymous
Post 02/09/2024 19:26     Subject: Why would my husband need an HIV test?
Maybe he was just curious?
Anonymous
Post 02/09/2024 19:25     Subject: Why would my husband need an HIV test?
Going through papers on the desk in our kitchen, I came across a pamphlet for accessing medical test results online. I almost trashed it in my reckless purging state, then decided to hang onto it in case my husband needed it. I opened it and glanced at it briefly. It had a sticker with a upc code to match the specimen taken to the lab. Then I realized it was a pamphlet for HIV antibody testing. Can anyone give me a good reason why my husband would take this test given we have been in a monogamous relationship for 20 years?

I plan to ask him when he gets back in town, but he is currently on a trip.