Do these feeling lead you to grab the buttocks?

Both arms, possibly

Anonymous wrote:A hug like a greeting hug that I might greet any other friend or family.member with? No.

What about the hug in question is concerning? Does it linger too long? Are hands wandering?

Did you leave room for Jesus? That's a friendly hug.

Anonymous wrote:If you have feelings?

I'm assuming you mean feelings for them, in a romantic/sexual sense, not just feelings in general.

If you have feelings they don't know about, it's creepy. If they have feelings and you know about it and share them? It's cheating.

If they have feelings you know about and don't share, it's a cruel tease.

Anonymous wrote:I’m, hugging where you are presse against him/her and he’s hard/your hands are wandering is indeed cheating. There’s hugging and there’s foreplay and sometimes they’re the same.

Sure, but it isn't the hug that makes that cheating. It's the hand stuff with genitals.

A hug like a greeting hug that I might greet any other friend or family.member with? No.

What about the hug in question is concerning? Does it linger too long? Are hands wandering?

No but it sounds like it could lead to it. As a PP said, it is indeed a slippery slope.

I’m, hugging where you are presse against him/her and he’s hard/your hands are wandering is indeed cheating. There’s hugging and there’s foreplay and sometimes they’re the same.

Anonymous wrote:What kind of hugging are we talking about?

+1. "Hugging" genitalia is almost always cheating. Otherwise, no.

What kind of hugging are we talking about?

If you're naked.

Hugging with the arm rubbing very close to the buttocks is a slippery slope

Slippery slope.

That's up to you and your conscience.

If you have feelings?