We have had hardwood in the kitchen for 15 years, and it's fine. It's even survived a dishwasher flood.
We have quartersawn oak finished with Street Shoe, a water-based poly that I don't love, but it has held up really well, and I don't dislike it enough to redo the floors.
Our front hall also has hardwood, not quartersawn, with oil-based poly, and it looks fine 25 years after we moved in.