Anonymous
Post 01/27/2024 18:22     Subject: How bad is it for one member of family to back out of birthday party at a venue at the last minute?

Anonymous wrote:It's fine but if you feel bad about it go for just an hour, then leave. DH and DC can stay behind.


+1
Anonymous
Post 01/27/2024 12:28     Subject: How bad is it for one member of family to back out of birthday party at a venue at the last minute?

Anonymous wrote:Take a Zoloft


Great solution. It might help slightly (but most likely will not) after weeks of fiddling with different dosages.
Anonymous
Post 01/27/2024 12:26     Subject: How bad is it for one member of family to back out of birthday party at a venue at the last minute?

Anonymous wrote:Why did you rsvp for 2 adults anyway?? Next time 1 kid. 1 adult.
And if your kid is 5+ old, it's drop-off


They are our friends. The party is for adults and kids.
Anonymous
Post 01/27/2024 12:11     Subject: How bad is it for one member of family to back out of birthday party at a venue at the last minute?

Why did you rsvp for 2 adults anyway?? Next time 1 kid. 1 adult.
And if your kid is 5+ old, it's drop-off
Anonymous
Post 01/27/2024 11:48     Subject: How bad is it for one member of family to back out of birthday party at a venue at the last minute?

Anonymous wrote:Take a Zoloft


I am on Zoloft. Does that make you laugh? Are you 4?
Anonymous
Post 01/27/2024 11:47     Subject: How bad is it for one member of family to back out of birthday party at a venue at the last minute?

Usually they’re just paying for the kid participants, not the adults. I wouldn’t worry about it at all.
Anonymous
Post 01/27/2024 11:45     Subject: How bad is it for one member of family to back out of birthday party at a venue at the last minute?

It's fine but if you feel bad about it go for just an hour, then leave. DH and DC can stay behind.
Anonymous
Post 01/27/2024 11:43     Subject: How bad is it for one member of family to back out of birthday party at a venue at the last minute?

Take a Zoloft
Anonymous
Post 01/27/2024 10:28     Subject: How bad is it for one member of family to back out of birthday party at a venue at the last minute?

It’s fine
Anonymous
Post 01/27/2024 10:26     Subject: How bad is it for one member of family to back out of birthday party at a venue at the last minute?

I think it’s fine. DH doesn’t have to explain why, just something came up and you’re so sorry to not be able to join them. No big deal.
Anonymous
Post 01/27/2024 10:25     Subject: How bad is it for one member of family to back out of birthday party at a venue at the last minute?

Party is a birthday party for friends' kid at a venue. They did ask for RSVPs and we said the three of us would go. I have a ton of work - is it horrible for me to back out if DH will go with DD?