Anonymous wrote:I'm raising my boys with an option not to have to go to college, work, or any career pressure.
I would do the same for girls if I had any.
The boys don't know any of it and are doing well at school.
I was abused and used at work place and I don't want it to happen to them. I also can't really help them with any career advice. All I can do is just work, save money so they will have options.
I get that you have your reasons, but I think this may backfire. Have you considered instead raising them to recognize and stand up to abuse, and seek out better situations? I'm being genuine and hope that comes across.