Anonymous
Post 01/19/2024 18:02     Subject: Valerie Bettinelli is not OK

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:She should have never remarried. Eddie was her true love.


If that was true, they wouldn't have divorced..


Well sometimes you do divorce and regret it later.
Anonymous
Post 01/19/2024 17:52     Subject: Valerie Bettinelli is not OK

It’s Bertinelli, OP.
Anonymous
Post 01/19/2024 17:03     Subject: Valerie Bettinelli is not OK

Anonymous wrote:Her contract wasn't renewed on the Food Channel. She seems adrift and gained a lot of weight. Maybe depressed/ midlife crisis.


She'll be in 64 in April. Not midlife, more like 3/4 life crisis. But I hope she pulls through.
Anonymous
Post 01/19/2024 15:59     Subject: Valerie Bettinelli is not OK

Why wouldn't she revel in her sense of betrayal and loss? Y'all eat it up.
Anonymous
Post 01/19/2024 15:46     Subject: Valerie Bettinelli is not OK

Her contract wasn't renewed on the Food Channel. She seems adrift and gained a lot of weight. Maybe depressed/ midlife crisis.
Anonymous
Post 01/19/2024 15:41     Subject: Valerie Bettinelli is not OK

Her son is a legit musician.
Anonymous
Post 01/19/2024 15:40     Subject: Re:Valerie Bettinelli is not OK

This makes me so sad. I've always liked her (doesn't everyone?), even though I never watched One Day at a Time. Despite being a celebrity in her own right and married to one of the world's greatest rock guitarists, she always seemed relatable.

I read her first memoir that detailed her marriage to Eddie, among other things. Seemed like she was doing well with Tom. They dated for several years and were married for ten. Awful that it ended this way and hurt her so badly.
Anonymous
Post 01/19/2024 13:53     Subject: Re:Valerie Bettinelli is not OK

PTSD-like trauma. It can happen to people that are victims of adultery/cheating spouses who have been gaslighted and emotionally abused for years. It can literally drive some people crazy.
Anonymous
Post 01/19/2024 13:33     Subject: Valerie Bettinelli is not OK

Anonymous wrote:She should have never remarried. Eddie was her true love.


If that was true, they wouldn't have divorced..
Anonymous
Post 01/19/2024 13:31     Subject: Valerie Bettinelli is not OK

I follow her on Instagram, and she does seem to mention this almost daily. Not the ex-husband by name, but I assume that's who she is referring to.

For anyone who goes through that, is it good to continue to focus on it as he/she works through it?
Anonymous
Post 01/19/2024 12:35     Subject: Valerie Bettinelli is not OK

She does seem to talk a lot about him. I think she has been divorced for about a year.
Anonymous
Post 01/19/2024 12:34     Subject: Valerie Bettinelli is not OK

Who can blame her for taking another chance to be married? Her first mareiage was so nontraditional that maybe she thought this would he a better fit.

Either way, this sounds so very ugly. I wish her peace moving forward in a healthier way.
Anonymous
Post 01/19/2024 12:30     Subject: Valerie Bettinelli is not OK

She should have never remarried. Eddie was her true love.
Anonymous
Post 01/19/2024 12:25     Subject: Valerie Bettinelli is not OK

Yeah she's been like this for awhile now. She said Tom is a narcissist and would do things like laughing at her weight. She had to pay him a few million dollars after finalizing the divorce too
Anonymous
Post 01/19/2024 12:13     Subject: Valerie Bettinelli is not OK

What did her ex-H do to her? And I don’t mean Eddie. Her IG is so full of posts about narcissists, people doing people wrong, healing, etc.


I like Valerie, she just seems mired in this.