Anonymous
12/20/2023 10:57
Subject: Likes for social media “models”
This is bothering you. I would listen to that. You can love somebody and they may also not be the right one for you.
Parasocial relationships, not a great thing in any form.
A pulse and a sex drive is not linked to this behavior.
Parasocial relationships, not a great thing in any form.
A pulse and a sex drive is not linked to this behavior.
Anonymous
12/20/2023 10:43
Subject: Likes for social media “models”
Didn't even bother reading passed 2nd marriage. Stop wasting your time, OP. He's a loser, you don't want that around your children.
Anonymous
12/20/2023 10:40
Subject: Likes for social media “models”
- Agreed, not ideal. However, neither is another divorce.
- I love him and want to move in together in the next 2 years or so. Not being married at that point is not an option I would consider. Plus, I miss the tax break.
(joking; kind of…)
- No and we’re on the same about not having kids together.
- I love him and want to move in together in the next 2 years or so. Not being married at that point is not an option I would consider. Plus, I miss the tax break.
(joking; kind of…)
- No and we’re on the same about not having kids together.
Anonymous
12/20/2023 10:20
Subject: Likes for social media “models”
Anonymous wrote:OP here.
FWIW, I am not opposed to doing some legal sleuthing. Any recommendations?
I can’t put my young kids (or myself) through another failed marriage/divorce. TIA
Not a great way to start a marriage. Why do you feel the need to get married? Do you want children with this person?
Anonymous
12/20/2023 10:18
Subject: Likes for social media “models”
Anonymous wrote:He’s following them so they show up in his feed. This is no different from a guy looking at the SI swimsuit issue. Be glad he has a pulse and a sex drive.
Definitely glad.
I’m with you 100% up until him actually liking their posts. That’s where he loses my trust.
Anonymous
12/20/2023 10:15
Subject: Likes for social media “models”
OP here.
FWIW, I am not opposed to doing some legal sleuthing. Any recommendations?
I can’t put my young kids (or myself) through another failed marriage/divorce. TIA
FWIW, I am not opposed to doing some legal sleuthing. Any recommendations?
I can’t put my young kids (or myself) through another failed marriage/divorce. TIA
Anonymous
12/20/2023 10:14
Subject: Likes for social media “models”
He’s following them so they show up in his feed. This is no different from a guy looking at the SI swimsuit issue. Be glad he has a pulse and a sex drive.
Anonymous
12/20/2023 10:09
Subject: Likes for social media “models”
Anonymous wrote:When my husband was doing this, it turned out he was private messaging and exchanging explicit photos and videos with several women.
How did you find out?
Anonymous
12/20/2023 10:08
Subject: Likes for social media “models”
Not ok.
Anonymous
12/20/2023 09:00
Subject: Likes for social media “models”
Guy here and I don’t get guys that do this. It just weird especially when you are in a committed relationship.
Anonymous
12/20/2023 05:54
Subject: Likes for social media “models”
Anonymous wrote:They follow him back huh?
🤔 interesting
A lot of IG models just follow whoever. I think it’s tacky for a guy to regularly like IG thirst traps but being mutual follows doesn’t mean anything. Which is a massive disappointment to a lot of men living in their parents’ basements.
Anonymous
12/20/2023 05:51
Subject: Likes for social media “models”
People who want to excuse crappy behavior on the part of men will say it’s acceptable behavior. And there are a lot of people who say that. I would not be okay with it.
Anonymous
12/20/2023 05:41
Subject: Likes for social media “models”
When my husband was doing this, it turned out he was private messaging and exchanging explicit photos and videos with several women.
Anonymous
12/20/2023 05:21
Subject: Likes for social media “models”
They follow him back huh?
🤔 interesting
🤔 interesting
Anonymous
12/20/2023 02:45
Subject: Likes for social media “models”
BF of 1.5 years (exclusive) likes IG posts of random, barely-clothed “models” in VERY sexual poses, mostly from behind. We’ve discussed marriage (will be 2nd marriages for both of us) and have known each other socially for 10+ years.
Currently, he only follows a few of these accounts himself but has at least 10 such accounts following him. He does not personally know any of the women IRL.
Why even like such posts if you aren’t messaging them privately, right?
It bothers me but not sure how/if to bring it up to him. Is this acceptable behavior these days when in a committed relationship?
Currently, he only follows a few of these accounts himself but has at least 10 such accounts following him. He does not personally know any of the women IRL.
Why even like such posts if you aren’t messaging them privately, right?
It bothers me but not sure how/if to bring it up to him. Is this acceptable behavior these days when in a committed relationship?