Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Money.
Why is it so hard to just give people what they actually want?
Because a gift is supposed to be about more than just the dollar value of the gift
It's
- i understand and know your likes and interests
- i spent my own time (more valuable than money) to think and purchase this gift
- I'm invested in your happiness and may try to expand your interests/learn new things
My kids get cash and gift cards sometimes, and while they're not disappointed with those, they GREATLY prefer real gifts.