Anonymous
Post 12/13/2023 09:50     Subject: Re:Enthusiasm
Anonymous wrote:No. We don't need some performative side show to enjoy it.
Is that what you think enthusiasm in the bedroom means?
Anonymous
Post 12/13/2023 09:47     Subject: Enthusiasm
In a long term marriage, don’t let the lofty bar of Enthusiasm prevent regular enjoyable sex with the Happily willing.
Anonymous
Post 12/13/2023 08:09     Subject: Re:Enthusiasm
No. We don't need some performative side show to enjoy it.
Anonymous
Post 12/13/2023 08:08     Subject: Re:Enthusiasm
Yes, we are enthusiastic in the bedroom. Been married 23 years and we are in our late 50s. OK, we're not enthusiastic every single time, but fairly often.
Anonymous
Post 12/13/2023 08:07     Subject: Enthusiasm
Yes, but not animated way or overdoing it. It is always happy to see me and ready to go.
We don't live together and meet about once a week.
Anonymous
Post 12/13/2023 00:19     Subject: Enthusiasm
Very. Been together for 15 years. He keeps it very fresh. Puts effort and forethought into pleasing me. The bondage session we had last week was a top 3 or 4 of all time.
Anonymous
Post 12/12/2023 20:40     Subject: Enthusiasm
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:We’ve only been dating for four months but hell yes.


Age?


I’m a 42 year old guy. She’s 49.
Anonymous
Post 12/12/2023 19:14     Subject: Enthusiasm
Mine isn’t. It bothered me initially but I learned over time he doesn’t get enthusiastic about much; it’s just not how he expresses. We have a great sex life and I’ve learned to adapt to his laid back nature.
Anonymous
Post 12/12/2023 19:07     Subject: Re:Enthusiasm
Anonymous wrote:Wife speaking and sometimes dh is and other times I feel like he's just having sex with me because I initiated and he didn't want to tell me no and hurt my feelings. On days it's good its good but the other times he's a taker and doesn't reciprocate.


+1, I’m a DW who always initiates but DH always reciprocates even if he doesn’t seem enthusiastic. I think he doesn’t want to hurt my feelings but he has always made sure I finish 100% of the time.
Anonymous
Post 12/12/2023 18:53     Subject: Re:Enthusiasm
Wife speaking and sometimes dh is and other times I feel like he's just having sex with me because I initiated and he didn't want to tell me no and hurt my feelings. On days it's good its good but the other times he's a taker and doesn't reciprocate.
Anonymous
Post 12/12/2023 17:58     Subject: Re:Enthusiasm
I’m happy!🤗
Anonymous
Post 12/12/2023 17:57     Subject: Enthusiasm
Anonymous wrote:We’ve only been dating for four months but hell yes.


Age?
Anonymous
Post 12/12/2023 17:37     Subject: Enthusiasm
No. He's asexual and hasn't been remotely interested in sex for over 15 years. Plenty of sex at the beginning, but I think he did it just because he thought he had to. It's fine, I don't mind -- he's great otherwise.
Anonymous
Post 12/12/2023 17:01     Subject: Enthusiasm
We’ve only been dating for four months but hell yes.
Anonymous
Post 12/12/2023 16:46     Subject: Enthusiasm
Is your partner enthusiastic when it comes to the bedroom? Or not as much as you’d like?