They’re all behind paywalls, he’s not browsing through pictures of women unless he has a paid (or maybe trial) membership.

What exactly did you see?

Anonymous wrote:And how did you discover this? Hijacking his computer? Nice! I’m sure plenty of people surf dating sites for fun but unless he’s paying for a site I wouldn’t worry about it.

I am single & even I do not surf dating sites.

If my S/O were doing so - I would take it that they were seriously considering cheating on me.

OP >> Definitely speak to your husband about this and see how he reacts.

He likely will deny it.
At least then you will know that you are married to a man w/little to zero integrity. 💔

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Ask him about his intentions?

He could be doing it out of curiosity or for research. No?

LOLOLOL…ah yes, research.

How badly do you want to know?

Here are some ideas:

- check his phone & email
- check the phone bill for numbers called and see if there’s anything suspicious
- track the car
- log into his google to see if there’s location history
- track the car
- check the credit card bills
- pull his credit report to see if he’s started any new cards
- search his files on his computer

I mean all things totally crazy, but when i did some/most of these things i found tons of evidence of an affair

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Anonymous wrote:Ask him about his intentions?

He could be doing it out of curiosity or for research. No?

That’s right. It may be harmless today, but that’s because the opportunity hasn’t presented itself.

Anonymous wrote:And how did you discover this? Hijacking his computer? Nice! I’m sure plenty of people surf dating sites for fun but unless he’s paying for a site I wouldn’t worry about it.

That's absurd. Why would you scroll through pictures of available women "for fun" unless you intended to pursue something???

And how did you discover this? Hijacking his computer? Nice! I’m sure plenty of people surf dating sites for fun but unless he’s paying for a site I wouldn’t worry about it.

Are you going to let us help you create a fake profile so you can catch him in the act and out him on Cheaters?

Anonymous wrote:Ask him about his intentions?

Ask him about his intentions?

No, you can’t stop them from cheating

Save the marriage but I’m angry that he would be looking.

If I confront he just gets better at hiding it. Can you really stop someone from cheating?

You want to save your marriage?

Or get a payday in the divorce?

Found my husband looking through dating sites. Should I confront him or keep quiet and collect evidence. Thinking of tracking his car as a first step.