Anonymous wrote:Probably depends on the person. I could not stand being married to somebody I didn't love. It seems like such a shallow and superficial lifestyle to put money over a good connection and that's not the kind of life I could lead.
Yes. There are a lot of people who are happy with choices they made, but that doesn't mean you'd be happy if you'd made their choices. That applies along many dimensions. I'd be miserable if I'd married for money, but I'd also be miserable married to a cheerful, bubbly woman. Fortunately I found a snarky, introverted partner.