Anonymous
Post 11/07/2023 05:07     Subject: If your college friend is pushing her unfortunate daughter into modeling

What does “unfortunate” mean here?

Models are tall and thin. They are not always conventionally beautiful. You’d be surprised what they look like without makeup. A LOT of modeling is just the training, like any job.

Hope this girl gets a bunch of money socked away in a Roth while you snark about her mom.
Anonymous
Post 11/07/2023 01:12     Subject: If your college friend is pushing her unfortunate daughter into modeling

Anonymous wrote:Unfortunate because this is her mother- or unfortunate-looking? Either way, I'd just say 'good for you that you are doing the photos yourself because there are so many people willing to take parents money and manipulate them into thinking their kids have a chance at success'.


Unfortunate because her mother is unhappy having shrews for friends.
Anonymous
Post 11/07/2023 00:11     Subject: If your college friend is pushing her unfortunate daughter into modeling

Unfortunate because this is her mother- or unfortunate-looking? Either way, I'd just say 'good for you that you are doing the photos yourself because there are so many people willing to take parents money and manipulate them into thinking their kids have a chance at success'.
Anonymous
Post 11/06/2023 20:30     Subject: If your college friend is pushing her unfortunate daughter into modeling

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Do yourself a favor and just don't try to be friends with this woman.

Calling her daughter "unfortunate" and you feeling as if you need to set her straight is beyond the pale.


Not OP but what word would you prefer? Ugly? I mean if she’s not model material she’s not model material.


There's different kinds of models. Maybe this "unfortunate" looking kid is tall and skeletal and she wants to be a runway model.
Is OP listening to what her friend is saying or just waiting till she can get online and trash her?
Anonymous
Post 11/06/2023 20:27     Subject: If your college friend is pushing her unfortunate daughter into modeling

I have a friend like this, posts pictures of her daughters modeling shoots incessantly in FB. She is just a normal looking toddler. And she isn’t smiling in a single shoot that I’ve seen, which is weird to me. But you can’t say anything. What would you even say? And why? For what purpose? It would be unnecessary and solely to be unkind. It wouldn’t accomplish a single thing besides hurt feelings.
Anonymous
Post 11/06/2023 20:26     Subject: If your college friend is pushing her unfortunate daughter into modeling

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Do yourself a favor and just don't try to be friends with this woman.

Calling her daughter "unfortunate" and you feeling as if you need to set her straight is beyond the pale.


Not OP but what word would you prefer? Ugly? I mean if she’s not model material she’s not model material.

Then she’ll find out soon enough on her own.
Anonymous
Post 11/06/2023 20:26     Subject: If your college friend is pushing her unfortunate daughter into modeling

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Do yourself a favor and just don't try to be friends with this woman.

Calling her daughter "unfortunate" and you feeling as if you need to set her straight is beyond the pale.


Not OP but what word would you prefer? Ugly? I mean if she’s not model material she’s not model material.


A lot of successful models actually look pretty homely without the makeup etc.


+1 NP
Anonymous
Post 11/06/2023 20:23     Subject: If your college friend is pushing her unfortunate daughter into modeling

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Do yourself a favor and just don't try to be friends with this woman.

Calling her daughter "unfortunate" and you feeling as if you need to set her straight is beyond the pale.


Not OP but what word would you prefer? Ugly? I mean if she’s not model material she’s not model material.


A lot of successful models actually look pretty homely without the makeup etc.
Anonymous
Post 11/06/2023 20:22     Subject: If your college friend is pushing her unfortunate daughter into modeling

How would you want her to treat you in a similar situation, OP?
Anonymous
Post 11/06/2023 20:22     Subject: If your college friend is pushing her unfortunate daughter into modeling

Anonymous wrote:Do yourself a favor and just don't try to be friends with this woman.

Calling her daughter "unfortunate" and you feeling as if you need to set her straight is beyond the pale.


Not OP but what word would you prefer? Ugly? I mean if she’s not model material she’s not model material.
Anonymous
Post 11/06/2023 20:14     Subject: If your college friend is pushing her unfortunate daughter into modeling

Anonymous wrote:Do not open your big mouth. Do not encourage. Let your friend talk. You are there to listen. Nothing more, nothing less. Do not judge. Just listen. You are an adult. Are you able to do that OP??


+1
Anonymous
Post 11/06/2023 20:12     Subject: If your college friend is pushing her unfortunate daughter into modeling

Do not open your big mouth. Do not encourage. Let your friend talk. You are there to listen. Nothing more, nothing less. Do not judge. Just listen. You are an adult. Are you able to do that OP??
Anonymous
Post 11/06/2023 20:12     Subject: If your college friend is pushing her unfortunate daughter into modeling

Do yourself a favor and just don't try to be friends with this woman.

Calling her daughter "unfortunate" and you feeling as if you need to set her straight is beyond the pale.
Anonymous
Post 11/06/2023 20:11     Subject: If your college friend is pushing her unfortunate daughter into modeling

Never
Anonymous
Post 11/06/2023 20:10     Subject: If your college friend is pushing her unfortunate daughter into modeling

And wants you to fawn over her modeling photos, how long before the facade drops and you tell her the truth - find a new hobby?