Anonymous wrote:"Did you purposefully omit me from these invitations or did you just figure you'd spare me the extra meeting? I know I rarely contribute but I have found these calls helpful to prepare for what is coming down the business pipeline. Let me know if there is an issue if I join in listening-only mode going forward."
You care because (1) someone is being stupid by not including you on purpose OR (2) someone is being stupid but not realizing you're not included and (3) it'll take longer to clean the s up if you're not involved at the outset.
I agree with telling them that it helps you to plan. But I actively participate in the calls. I call them out if they are starting discussions without a CDA, or if they mention having terms in hand that I haven't seen yet. After a few comments they will start looping you into the discussion.