Anonymous
Post 10/29/2023 00:14     Subject: $30 sitter rate for 2 kids?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:OP, I'm a full-time nanny for one family and work for others for ad-hoc evening care. Totally fine to pay her in cash for the ad-hoc times if you both agree. I've been doing this for 15+ years, file taxes every year, and never had an issue so not worried about it at all. As far as the rate, I charge my employers less because evening care for me is so much less work than the typical day-to-day of regular weekday care so I guess it depends on what works best for you two. For context, my pay is $25/$1,000 every 4 weeks and for ad-hoc evenings I charge $20 with a 4hr min.


It is not fine even if she agrees because it is illegal. This is OP's full time nanny, and legally, all time over 40, hours must be paid as overtime of 1.5 hourly pay. Stop cheating the person who takes care of your most valuable possession!


Children aren't possessions.
Anonymous
Post 10/28/2023 23:00     Subject: $30 sitter rate for 2 kids?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:OP, I'm a full-time nanny for one family and work for others for ad-hoc evening care. Totally fine to pay her in cash for the ad-hoc times if you both agree. I've been doing this for 15+ years, file taxes every year, and never had an issue so not worried about it at all. As far as the rate, I charge my employers less because evening care for me is so much less work than the typical day-to-day of regular weekday care so I guess it depends on what works best for you two. For context, my pay is $25/$1,000 every 4 weeks and for ad-hoc evenings I charge $20 with a 4hr min.


It is not fine even if she agrees because it is illegal. This is OP's full time nanny, and legally, all time over 40, hours must be paid as overtime of 1.5 hourly pay. Stop cheating the person who takes care of your most valuable possession!


This.
She can work for OTHER people on the weekends for whatever pay she negotiates. But for you, OP, it’s illegal for you to hire her to work for you over 40+ hours unless you are paying overtime.
Anonymous
Post 10/28/2023 22:43     Subject: $30 sitter rate for 2 kids?

Anonymous wrote:OP. It hadn't even occurred to me that this is overtime. I had been thinking of it as separate work she does for various clients during weekends, particularly as she gets paid in cash for sitting. Thanks for the feedback.


How could it possibly be anything other than overtime? The law is really clear.
Anonymous
Post 10/28/2023 22:41     Subject: $30 sitter rate for 2 kids?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:OP, I'm a full-time nanny for one family and work for others for ad-hoc evening care. Totally fine to pay her in cash for the ad-hoc times if you both agree. I've been doing this for 15+ years, file taxes every year, and never had an issue so not worried about it at all. As far as the rate, I charge my employers less because evening care for me is so much less work than the typical day-to-day of regular weekday care so I guess it depends on what works best for you two. For context, my pay is $25/$1,000 every 4 weeks and for ad-hoc evenings I charge $20 with a 4hr min.


It is not fine even if she agrees because it is illegal. This is OP's full time nanny, and legally, all time over 40, hours must be paid as overtime of 1.5 hourly pay. Stop cheating the person who takes care of your most valuable possession!


Plus 1. I charge same for day/night. It is still your time. Do not short change yourself.
Anonymous
Post 10/28/2023 22:40     Subject: $30 sitter rate for 2 kids?

Anonymous wrote:We pay $22 for 2 kids.


Underpaying
Anonymous
Post 10/28/2023 21:05     Subject: $30 sitter rate for 2 kids?

that is pretty low for 2 kids
Anonymous
Post 10/28/2023 18:37     Subject: $30 sitter rate for 2 kids?

Anonymous wrote:OP, I'm a full-time nanny for one family and work for others for ad-hoc evening care. Totally fine to pay her in cash for the ad-hoc times if you both agree. I've been doing this for 15+ years, file taxes every year, and never had an issue so not worried about it at all. As far as the rate, I charge my employers less because evening care for me is so much less work than the typical day-to-day of regular weekday care so I guess it depends on what works best for you two. For context, my pay is $25/$1,000 every 4 weeks and for ad-hoc evenings I charge $20 with a 4hr min.


It is not fine even if she agrees because it is illegal. This is OP's full time nanny, and legally, all time over 40, hours must be paid as overtime of 1.5 hourly pay. Stop cheating the person who takes care of your most valuable possession!
Anonymous
Post 10/27/2023 22:46     Subject: $30 sitter rate for 2 kids?

We pay $22 for 2 kids.
Anonymous
Post 10/27/2023 15:25     Subject: $30 sitter rate for 2 kids?

Anonymous wrote:OP, I'm a full-time nanny for one family and work for others for ad-hoc evening care. Totally fine to pay her in cash for the ad-hoc times if you both agree. I've been doing this for 15+ years, file taxes every year, and never had an issue so not worried about it at all. As far as the rate, I charge my employers less because evening care for me is so much less work than the typical day-to-day of regular weekday care so I guess it depends on what works best for you two. For context, my pay is $25/$1,000 every 4 weeks and for ad-hoc evenings I charge $20 with a 4hr min.


*$1,000 every week
Anonymous
Post 10/27/2023 15:24     Subject: $30 sitter rate for 2 kids?

OP, I'm a full-time nanny for one family and work for others for ad-hoc evening care. Totally fine to pay her in cash for the ad-hoc times if you both agree. I've been doing this for 15+ years, file taxes every year, and never had an issue so not worried about it at all. As far as the rate, I charge my employers less because evening care for me is so much less work than the typical day-to-day of regular weekday care so I guess it depends on what works best for you two. For context, my pay is $25/$1,000 every 4 weeks and for ad-hoc evenings I charge $20 with a 4hr min.
Anonymous
Post 10/27/2023 15:13     Subject: $30 sitter rate for 2 kids?

OP. It hadn't even occurred to me that this is overtime. I had been thinking of it as separate work she does for various clients during weekends, particularly as she gets paid in cash for sitting. Thanks for the feedback.
Anonymous
Post 10/27/2023 15:03     Subject: $30 sitter rate for 2 kids?

If she's your nanny and working 40 hours you should pay her time and a half.
Anonymous
Post 10/27/2023 15:01     Subject: $30 sitter rate for 2 kids?

Sounds cheap assuming if she's your full time nanny it should be paid at time and a half overtime rate.
Anonymous
Post 10/27/2023 09:47     Subject: $30 sitter rate for 2 kids?

Absolutely yes. So honestly since she’s an employee, you might even have to pay her time and a half which might end up being more than $30.
Anonymous
Post 10/27/2023 09:44     Subject: $30 sitter rate for 2 kids?

Just trying to gauge whether this rate proposed for babysitting 2 kids is reasonable. FWIW, this would be our nanny, and we would pay her in cash, so I think her take-home pay for sitting is perhaps more than what she gets from nannying (based on rough calculations). Maybe that's reasonable because she's working outside of normal business hours, and of course we would feel more comfortable leaving our kids with her as compared to a random sitter we find. Do others think this is in the range of what's market?