Anonymous
Post 10/25/2023 15:07     Subject: What is it about colleges that brings out so many weird personal vendettas?

Anonymous wrote:I suspect it’s related to the hollowing out of the middle class and our growing sense that only a lucky few get to hit the economic jackpot, while the rest will scrape for pennies and be unable to afford a home/car/medicine, etc. Scarcity breeds competition etc.

Depressing but anthropologically fascinating.


What? There are affordable colleges for everyone, and plenty of highly successful people come out of Non-T25 universities.
Anonymous
Post 10/25/2023 15:06     Subject: Re:What is it about colleges that brings out so many weird personal vendettas?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I will answer this for myself. Not sure if other people are like this.

I know several people who went to certain schools who are just extremely horrible people and I hate them, and I like to trash their schools on these boards sometimes out of spite.

It has zero to do with how hard the school is to get into, especially now, since the people who make me hate these schools all went to college in the late 90s or early 00s.

But I also think it's interesting that other people ALSO seem to hate Notre Dame. Maybe it produces a lot of very annoying graduates?


NP. Wow. I literally cannot imagine being so dedicated to a grudge this way. This seems profoundly maladjusted to me.


Well, this is the DMV area, so…
Anonymous
Post 10/25/2023 15:03     Subject: Re:What is it about colleges that brings out so many weird personal vendettas?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I will answer this for myself. Not sure if other people are like this.

I know several people who went to certain schools who are just extremely horrible people and I hate them, and I like to trash their schools on these boards sometimes out of spite.

It has zero to do with how hard the school is to get into, especially now, since the people who make me hate these schools all went to college in the late 90s or early 00s.

But I also think it's interesting that other people ALSO seem to hate Notre Dame. Maybe it produces a lot of very annoying graduates?


NP. Wow. I literally cannot imagine being so dedicated to a grudge this way. This seems profoundly maladjusted to me.

+1 The PP could be one of the most immature responses I've seen on DCUM. And that's saying a lot!
Anonymous
Post 10/25/2023 14:55     Subject: Re:What is it about colleges that brings out so many weird personal vendettas?

Anonymous wrote:I will answer this for myself. Not sure if other people are like this.

I know several people who went to certain schools who are just extremely horrible people and I hate them, and I like to trash their schools on these boards sometimes out of spite.

It has zero to do with how hard the school is to get into, especially now, since the people who make me hate these schools all went to college in the late 90s or early 00s.

But I also think it's interesting that other people ALSO seem to hate Notre Dame. Maybe it produces a lot of very annoying graduates?


NP. Wow. I literally cannot imagine being so dedicated to a grudge this way. This seems profoundly maladjusted to me.
Anonymous
Post 10/25/2023 14:39     Subject: Re:What is it about colleges that brings out so many weird personal vendettas?

Anonymous wrote:I will answer this for myself. Not sure if other people are like this.

I know several people who went to certain schools who are just extremely horrible people and I hate them, and I like to trash their schools on these boards sometimes out of spite.

It has zero to do with how hard the school is to get into, especially now, since the people who make me hate these schools all went to college in the late 90s or early 00s.

But I also think it's interesting that other people ALSO seem to hate Notre Dame. Maybe it produces a lot of very annoying graduates?


Interesting.
Anonymous
Post 10/25/2023 12:37     Subject: What is it about colleges that brings out so many weird personal vendettas?

Anonymous wrote:400k. But my anger is at these billion dollar hedge funds with a tiny number of undergrads. not other civilians.

there are some personalities in this subculture, I've grown to really dislike, like the admissions dean at Dartmouth. Pompous, delusional, some weird belief he's an agent of equity. I'm so over this bullshit.


Laughing…this is true…I don’t know him but have heard him on podcasts…very douchey
Anonymous
Post 10/25/2023 12:36     Subject: Re:What is it about colleges that brings out so many weird personal vendettas?

Anonymous wrote:I will answer this for myself. Not sure if other people are like this.

I know several people who went to certain schools who are just extremely horrible people and I hate them, and I like to trash their schools on these boards sometimes out of spite.

It has zero to do with how hard the school is to get into, especially now, since the people who make me hate these schools all went to college in the late 90s or early 00s.

But I also think it's interesting that other people ALSO seem to hate Notre Dame. Maybe it produces a lot of very annoying graduates?


Tell me more. What kind of annoying people? My DD is interested in ND!
Anonymous
Post 10/25/2023 12:34     Subject: What is it about colleges that brings out so many weird personal vendettas?

400k. But my anger is at these billion dollar hedge funds with a tiny number of undergrads. not other civilians.

there are some personalities in this subculture, I've grown to really dislike, like the admissions dean at Dartmouth. Pompous, delusional, some weird belief he's an agent of equity. I'm so over this bullshit.
Anonymous
Post 10/25/2023 12:33     Subject: Re:What is it about colleges that brings out so many weird personal vendettas?

Anonymous wrote:I will answer this for myself. Not sure if other people are like this.

I know several people who went to certain schools who are just extremely horrible people and I hate them, and I like to trash their schools on these boards sometimes out of spite.

It has zero to do with how hard the school is to get into, especially now, since the people who make me hate these schools all went to college in the late 90s or early 00s.

But I also think it's interesting that other people ALSO seem to hate Notre Dame. Maybe it produces a lot of very annoying graduates?


What school did you go to that makes you lack critical thinking skills? Hope you're framing it as "I know a jerk who went to School X," otherwise you're the jerk.
Anonymous
Post 10/25/2023 12:28     Subject: Re:What is it about colleges that brings out so many weird personal vendettas?

Anonymous wrote:I will answer this for myself. Not sure if other people are like this.

I know several people who went to certain schools who are just extremely horrible people and I hate them, and I like to trash their schools on these boards sometimes out of spite.

It has zero to do with how hard the school is to get into, especially now, since the people who make me hate these schools all went to college in the late 90s or early 00s.

But I also think it's interesting that other people ALSO seem to hate Notre Dame. Maybe it produces a lot of very annoying graduates?


Lol, there’s truth to this!
Anonymous
Post 10/25/2023 12:27     Subject: Re:What is it about colleges that brings out so many weird personal vendettas?

I have not noticed any "weird, personal vendettas" against any schools. However, I have noticed many over zealous supporters of particular schools who misrepresent the truth in order to promote that specific school.
Anonymous
Post 10/25/2023 12:26     Subject: What is it about colleges that brings out so many weird personal vendettas?

I suspect it’s related to the hollowing out of the middle class and our growing sense that only a lucky few get to hit the economic jackpot, while the rest will scrape for pennies and be unable to afford a home/car/medicine, etc. Scarcity breeds competition etc.

Depressing but anthropologically fascinating.
Anonymous
Post 10/25/2023 12:24     Subject: Re:What is it about colleges that brings out so many weird personal vendettas?

I will answer this for myself. Not sure if other people are like this.

I know several people who went to certain schools who are just extremely horrible people and I hate them, and I like to trash their schools on these boards sometimes out of spite.

It has zero to do with how hard the school is to get into, especially now, since the people who make me hate these schools all went to college in the late 90s or early 00s.

But I also think it's interesting that other people ALSO seem to hate Notre Dame. Maybe it produces a lot of very annoying graduates?
Anonymous
Post 10/25/2023 12:24     Subject: What is it about colleges that brings out so many weird personal vendettas?

I guess people feel like results reflect on their parenting, financials, wisdom, savvy, genetic pool etc.
Anonymous
Post 10/25/2023 12:21     Subject: What is it about colleges that brings out so many weird personal vendettas?

Is it just the highly rejective nature of elite college admissions today?