Anonymous
Post 10/20/2023 07:42     Subject: People who can barely afford private should skip it.
Anonymous wrote:It’s worth every penny if you live in DC.


+1. Especially if you live outside the Deal/JR zone.
Anonymous
Post 10/20/2023 07:41     Subject: People who can barely afford private should skip it.
This posts assumes that people are deciding between a decent public school and a private. Not everyone has that kind of choice, and moving isn't always an option either.
Anonymous
Post 10/19/2023 22:17     Subject: People who can barely afford private should skip it.
It’s worth every penny if you live in DC.
Anonymous
Post 10/19/2023 22:16     Subject: People who can barely afford private should skip it.
Mine is in private and it's an uncomfortable stretch for us. We're not there for college (it's a K-8) or connections, we're there because our crowded public ignores bright obedient kids.
I expect to return to public for HS or maybe even junior high. But in the meanwhile DC loves going to school, isn't bullied, and is academically ahead of her friends in public without doing hours of tutoring.
Anonymous
Post 10/19/2023 22:14     Subject: People who can barely afford private should skip it.
I really think it depends on the school. I have two kids in Big3 schools and would say one school is worth it and one is not.
We're definitely in the income bracket where we feel the pain of tuition.


Anonymous
Post 10/19/2023 22:11     Subject: People who can barely afford private should skip it.
Mind your own business.
Anonymous
Post 10/19/2023 22:10     Subject: People who can barely afford private should skip it.
I can’t afford the constant donations they expect. It’s getting insane.
Anonymous
Post 10/19/2023 22:09     Subject: People who can barely afford private should skip it.
I have one in each and am a boarderline "struggler" and I don't think it's worth it. I would go private all the way with two because "I can" if I had it, but that's probably my poor jealous ass moping about.
Anonymous
Post 10/19/2023 21:58     Subject: People who can barely afford private should skip it.
Anonymous wrote:My personal advice for upper-middle class families that struggle for the tuition, is just to send your kid to public and pay for tutors in every subject. It will be much cheaper per year, and your kid will likely learn more from 1-on-1 tutoring vs private School.

...if you assume the opportunity cost of time is zero.
Anonymous
Post 10/19/2023 21:56     Subject: People who can barely afford private should skip it.
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:There is SO much teeth-gnashing on this board about if it’s “worth it.” It’s honestly only worth it if it isn’t a major sacrifice for you. If you’re entering the application process already stressed about what you’re going to get for the money, and especially if what you want to “get” is anything more than a solid education for your child, you’re going to end up disappointed.


I agree with this. The unspoken truth is that a lot of kids in these schools have private tutors to get an edge, have legacy to depend on for college admissions, etc. It's only worth it for truly wealthy families and scholarship kids who go on a full ride.

My personal advice for upper-middle class families that struggle for the tuition, is just to send your kid to public and pay for tutors in every subject. It will be much cheaper per year, and your kid will likely learn more from 1-on-1 tutoring vs private School. Bloom's two-sigma study shows that 1-on-1 tutoring is extremely effective.

Instead of paying $50k in tuition, you could spend half of that for an elite college admissions private consultant. They would make your kid 10x better applicant than anyone coming from a public school, and give you the inside track to a top college.


When you look at private like this you are missing why so many people actually choose private. It's not always about getting into the best college. It's about providing the best environment for your child. Not all children will do well in large public school classrooms. Not everyone can afford to buy a house in a top school district.


I just posted that we switched our kid from public to private. Our child has told us that there are some good teachers but others that are worse than the public school. As a parent, I love how included we are and all the information we receive from the school. We have already had multiple conferences, parent day, parent coffees, lunches, receptions, etc.

Our public had many extremely smart students. I’m not sure the private kids are stronger students. I do like the smaller class sizes and personalized attention.
Anonymous
Post 10/19/2023 21:50     Subject: People who can barely afford private should skip it.
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:There is SO much teeth-gnashing on this board about if it’s “worth it.” It’s honestly only worth it if it isn’t a major sacrifice for you. If you’re entering the application process already stressed about what you’re going to get for the money, and especially if what you want to “get” is anything more than a solid education for your child, you’re going to end up disappointed.


I agree with this. The unspoken truth is that a lot of kids in these schools have private tutors to get an edge, have legacy to depend on for college admissions, etc. It's only worth it for truly wealthy families and scholarship kids who go on a full ride.

My personal advice for upper-middle class families that struggle for the tuition, is just to send your kid to public and pay for tutors in every subject. It will be much cheaper per year, and your kid will likely learn more from 1-on-1 tutoring vs private School. Bloom's two-sigma study shows that 1-on-1 tutoring is extremely effective.

Instead of paying $50k in tuition, you could spend half of that for an elite college admissions private consultant. They would make your kid 10x better applicant than anyone coming from a public school, and give you the inside track to a top college.


When you look at private like this you are missing why so many people actually choose private. It's not always about getting into the best college. It's about providing the best environment for your child. Not all children will do well in large public school classrooms. Not everyone can afford to buy a house in a top school district.
Anonymous
Post 10/19/2023 21:47     Subject: People who can barely afford private should skip it.
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:There is SO much teeth-gnashing on this board about if it’s “worth it.” It’s honestly only worth it if it isn’t a major sacrifice for you. If you’re entering the application process already stressed about what you’re going to get for the money, and especially if what you want to “get” is anything more than a solid education for your child, you’re going to end up disappointed.


I agree with this. The unspoken truth is that a lot of kids in these schools have private tutors to get an edge, have legacy to depend on for college admissions, etc. It's only worth it for truly wealthy families and scholarship kids who go on a full ride.

My personal advice for upper-middle class families that struggle for the tuition, is just to send your kid to public and pay for tutors in every subject. It will be much cheaper per year, and your kid will likely learn more from 1-on-1 tutoring vs private School. Bloom's two-sigma study shows that 1-on-1 tutoring is extremely effective.

Instead of paying $50k in tuition, you could spend half of that for an elite college admissions private consultant. They would make your kid 10x better applicant than anyone coming from a public school, and give you the inside track to a top college.


We have a seven figure income and can afford private. We just switched one kid to private and there are definite positives but I am not sure if it is worth the extra commute and all the complaining from my son about wearing a tie everyday. Tuition is a non factor for us.

We live in a well regarded public. I don’t think private would give my kid a college admissions boost. He isn’t ivy material and he should be able to get into the same colleges from public.
Anonymous
Post 10/19/2023 21:34     Subject: People who can barely afford private should skip it.
Anonymous wrote:There is SO much teeth-gnashing on this board about if it’s “worth it.” It’s honestly only worth it if it isn’t a major sacrifice for you. If you’re entering the application process already stressed about what you’re going to get for the money, and especially if what you want to “get” is anything more than a solid education for your child, you’re going to end up disappointed.


I agree with this. The unspoken truth is that a lot of kids in these schools have private tutors to get an edge, have legacy to depend on for college admissions, etc. It's only worth it for truly wealthy families and scholarship kids who go on a full ride.

My personal advice for upper-middle class families that struggle for the tuition, is just to send your kid to public and pay for tutors in every subject. It will be much cheaper per year, and your kid will likely learn more from 1-on-1 tutoring vs private School. Bloom's two-sigma study shows that 1-on-1 tutoring is extremely effective.

Instead of paying $50k in tuition, you could spend half of that for an elite college admissions private consultant. They would make your kid 10x better applicant than anyone coming from a public school, and give you the inside track to a top college.
Anonymous
Post 10/19/2023 21:31     Subject: People who can barely afford private should skip it.
It’s ok OP, you can just say you don’t want your precious Larlo Larlison IV mixing with the underprivileged hoi polloi.
Anonymous
Post 10/19/2023 21:28     Subject: People who can barely afford private should skip it.
There is SO much teeth-gnashing on this board about if it’s “worth it.” It’s honestly only worth it if it isn’t a major sacrifice for you. If you’re entering the application process already stressed about what you’re going to get for the money, and especially if what you want to “get” is anything more than a solid education for your child, you’re going to end up disappointed.