Anonymous
Post 10/13/2023 14:38     Subject: Having dinner with a "new couple" tonight - potential friends - nervous


play good music in the background (if there are any lulls in the conversation makes them less noticable)

Anonymous
Post 10/13/2023 14:29     Subject: Having dinner with a "new couple" tonight - potential friends - nervous

This is one reason I love my DH. He is never socially anxious EVER. It would never occur to him to be nervous meeting someone new.

Just remember 2 drinks with new people is probably good, unless the vibes are perfect, then maybe 3.
Anonymous
Post 10/13/2023 14:26     Subject: Having dinner with a "new couple" tonight - potential friends - nervous

Anonymous wrote:chat gpt to the rescue! Just stick to these topics:

Personal Finances

Health Issues

Relationship Problems

Weight and Body Image

Politics and Religion

Age and Aging

Personal Beliefs and Philosophies

Personal Hygiene or Habits

Sexual Orientation or Identity

Death and Mortality

Legal Issues or Criminal Record

Past Failures or Embarrassing Moments


Oh yes, in that order, too. Nobody goes home until you get to past failures!
Anonymous
Post 10/13/2023 14:26     Subject: Having dinner with a "new couple" tonight - potential friends - nervous

Anonymous wrote:chat gpt to the rescue! Just stick to these topics:

Personal Finances

Health Issues

Relationship Problems

Weight and Body Image

Politics and Religion

Age and Aging

Personal Beliefs and Philosophies

Personal Hygiene or Habits

Sexual Orientation or Identity

Death and Mortality

Legal Issues or Criminal Record

Past Failures or Embarrassing Moments


Can I go to dinner with you? This sounds so fun!
Anonymous
Post 10/13/2023 14:23     Subject: Having dinner with a "new couple" tonight - potential friends - nervous

Anonymous wrote:chat gpt to the rescue! Just stick to these topics:

Personal Finances

Health Issues

Relationship Problems

Weight and Body Image

Politics and Religion

Age and Aging

Personal Beliefs and Philosophies

Personal Hygiene or Habits

Sexual Orientation or Identity

Death and Mortality

Legal Issues or Criminal Record

Past Failures or Embarrassing Moments


That dinner will be over in 15 min
Anonymous
Post 10/13/2023 14:17     Subject: Having dinner with a "new couple" tonight - potential friends - nervous

chat gpt to the rescue! Just stick to these topics:

Personal Finances

Health Issues

Relationship Problems

Weight and Body Image

Politics and Religion

Age and Aging

Personal Beliefs and Philosophies

Personal Hygiene or Habits

Sexual Orientation or Identity

Death and Mortality

Legal Issues or Criminal Record

Past Failures or Embarrassing Moments
Anonymous
Post 10/13/2023 13:51     Subject: Having dinner with a "new couple" tonight - potential friends - nervous

OP, first of all .. putting this much angst into this is not going to help. Good God Woman, act like you *have* friends.
Anonymous
Post 10/13/2023 12:49     Subject: Having dinner with a "new couple" tonight - potential friends - nervous

LOL PP
Anonymous
Post 10/13/2023 12:47     Subject: Re:Having dinner with a "new couple" tonight - potential friends - nervous

Anonymous
Post 10/13/2023 12:08     Subject: Having dinner with a "new couple" tonight - potential friends - nervous

I am out of practice making new friends! Kept meeting up at sports, made plans to hang out, and the big day is here - going out to dinner (DHs as well). I'm kind of jittery! What if we run out of conversation topics 10 min in? What if I am super boring? Help! Techniques, strategies, etc??