Anonymous
Post 10/12/2023 16:48     Subject: When parenting styles differ

Autistic Logistics has very practical tips
Anonymous
Post 10/12/2023 16:47     Subject: When parenting styles differ

Anonymous wrote:Get your DH assessed for ADHD and anxiety.



Anonymous
Post 10/12/2023 14:43     Subject: Re:When parenting styles differ

Anonymous wrote:Get a third party involved, a psychologist or parent coach or such, who's aware of your kid's needs. Some parenting differences are to be expected. You need to figure out which ones are problematic.


This has been effective for us too (if expensive). Then who is “right” isn’t the point - no one wins. It’s just about what is good for the kid. And usual tactics don’t always work for ND kids.
Anonymous
Post 10/12/2023 14:42     Subject: When parenting styles differ

Get your DH assessed for ADHD and anxiety.
Anonymous
Post 10/12/2023 14:37     Subject: Re:When parenting styles differ

Get a third party involved, a psychologist or parent coach or such, who's aware of your kid's needs. Some parenting differences are to be expected. You need to figure out which ones are problematic.
Anonymous
Post 10/12/2023 13:21     Subject: When parenting styles differ

Great question!

I don't have an answer, but the three of us are going to family coaching/therapy next week as a start.
Anonymous
Post 10/12/2023 12:55     Subject: When parenting styles differ

DS has ADHD and anxiety. It’s been a hard struggle to say the least. DH and I differ on a variety of topics (homework, chores, etc) and it’s causing tension. We are trying to find a way to move forward and I wanted to know What have you all done when your parenting styles clash? How do you work through things that both of you may consider to be “priorities” while also trying to support a child with lots of extra needs (and stay married!)? Any advice?