Anonymous wrote:Took my kid almost 2 years to try a tampon. There were lots of tears and she still avoids them at all costs. She likes a period suit closest to her regular practice suits like this one:
https://www.knixteen.com/products/period-swim-deep-dive-one-piece-bubbles-white
The key was no bra insert and tight fitting.
Anonymous wrote:Using a tampon is an option you seem to be ignoring.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Why wouldn’t they be “comfortable enough “ to use a tampon the first time?
It’s about comfort with the idea, not physical comfort. DD is getting her period about a year younger than I did. And she is less mature emotionally than many of her peers. She’s weirded out by the idea of a period and all the stuff that comes with it, including tampons. I’ve explained them (and I use them, so she has ready access to them to see what they’re like). I’ve been de-stigmatizing periods and period products with DS and DD their entire lives. But she needs time to get used to the idea of using a tampon or cup. Maybe she’s unique in that, but I suspect not.
Anonymous wrote:Why wouldn’t they be “comfortable enough “ to use a tampon the first time?
Anonymous wrote:Absolutely NO to period swimsuit.
I let DD skip until she was comfortable. Now they can read the insert (as we all did) and also watch youtubes about it too. I think she was motivated but I didn't pressure her. By second practice she was fine.