Anonymous
09/29/2023 18:18
Subject: SIL Travel Partner
Your brother and SIL clearly have some kind of agreement. Maybe he has a gal pal of his own.
Anonymous
09/29/2023 17:05
Subject: SIL Travel Partner
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:SIL (~35 years old, married to my brother for 7 years, mother of 4 kids) regularly travels out of town and camps with a similarly aged, unmarried male firefighter friend for 1-2 weeks at a time. Just the two of them.
Everyone I explain this to immediately thinks affair. Thoughts?
Why do you have to explain this to anyone?
I think it’s weird so I’m asking for others opinions.
You’re not a part of your brother and SILs relationship. They are the only 2 people that need to be comfortable with what she does. Your opinion and thoughts on the arrangement do not matter.
I have not shared my thoughts with them. I’m asking a bunch of strangers on an anonymous board what they think.
It doesn't matter what we think.
It matters what your brother thinks. Presumably he knows the arrangement and is fine with it. In that case, then why are you trying to stir up trouble?
Again, unclear how asking stranger for an opinion causes trouble.
Don't act like your asking a question is all innocent. You clearly have your own opinion and judgment and are just looking for other ppl to back you up. We can see through you.
Anonymous
09/29/2023 16:59
Subject: SIL Travel Partner
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:SIL (~35 years old, married to my brother for 7 years, mother of 4 kids) regularly travels out of town and camps with a similarly aged, unmarried male firefighter friend for 1-2 weeks at a time. Just the two of them.
Everyone I explain this to immediately thinks affair. Thoughts?
Why do you have to explain this to anyone?
I think it’s weird so I’m asking for others opinions.
You’re not a part of your brother and SILs relationship. They are the only 2 people that need to be comfortable with what she does. Your opinion and thoughts on the arrangement do not matter.
I have not shared my thoughts with them. I’m asking a bunch of strangers on an anonymous board what they think.
It doesn't matter what we think.
It matters what your brother thinks. Presumably he knows the arrangement and is fine with it. In that case, then why are you trying to stir up trouble?
Again, unclear how asking stranger for an opinion causes trouble.
Anonymous
09/29/2023 16:54
Subject: SIL Travel Partner
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:SIL (~35 years old, married to my brother for 7 years, mother of 4 kids) regularly travels out of town and camps with a similarly aged, unmarried male firefighter friend for 1-2 weeks at a time. Just the two of them.
Everyone I explain this to immediately thinks affair. Thoughts?
Why do you have to explain this to anyone?
I think it’s weird so I’m asking for others opinions.
You’re not a part of your brother and SILs relationship. They are the only 2 people that need to be comfortable with what she does. Your opinion and thoughts on the arrangement do not matter.
I have not shared my thoughts with them. I’m asking a bunch of strangers on an anonymous board what they think.
It doesn't matter what we think.
It matters what your brother thinks. Presumably he knows the arrangement and is fine with it. In that case, then why are you trying to stir up trouble?
Anonymous
09/29/2023 16:44
Subject: SIL Travel Partner
We think we don't care and are curious why you do so much.
Anonymous
09/29/2023 16:36
Subject: SIL Travel Partner
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:SIL (~35 years old, married to my brother for 7 years, mother of 4 kids) regularly travels out of town and camps with a similarly aged, unmarried male firefighter friend for 1-2 weeks at a time. Just the two of them.
Everyone I explain this to immediately thinks affair. Thoughts?
Why do you have to explain this to anyone?
I think it’s weird so I’m asking for others opinions.
You’re not a part of your brother and SILs relationship. They are the only 2 people that need to be comfortable with what she does. Your opinion and thoughts on the arrangement do not matter.
I have not shared my thoughts with them. I’m asking a bunch of strangers on an anonymous board what they think.
Anonymous
09/29/2023 16:28
Subject: SIL Travel Partner
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:SIL (~35 years old, married to my brother for 7 years, mother of 4 kids) regularly travels out of town and camps with a similarly aged, unmarried male firefighter friend for 1-2 weeks at a time. Just the two of them.
Everyone I explain this to immediately thinks affair. Thoughts?
Why do you have to explain this to anyone?
I think it’s weird so I’m asking for others opinions.
You’re not a part of your brother and SILs relationship. They are the only 2 people that need to be comfortable with what she does. Your opinion and thoughts on the arrangement do not matter.
Anonymous
09/29/2023 16:24
Subject: SIL Travel Partner
Anonymous wrote:LOL - You know you are going to be skewered for gossiping to 'everyone' about your SIL, right? Apparently your brother knows already. What is your role, exactly?
Brother knows what?
Anonymous
09/29/2023 16:24
Subject: SIL Travel Partner
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:SIL (~35 years old, married to my brother for 7 years, mother of 4 kids) regularly travels out of town and camps with a similarly aged, unmarried male firefighter friend for 1-2 weeks at a time. Just the two of them.
Everyone I explain this to immediately thinks affair. Thoughts?
Why do you have to explain this to anyone?
I think it’s weird so I’m asking for others opinions.
Anonymous
09/29/2023 16:21
Subject: SIL Travel Partner
Well OP maybe your brother is into it.
Anonymous
09/29/2023 16:21
Subject: SIL Travel Partner
Those kids are not your brothers.
Anonymous
09/29/2023 16:19
Subject: SIL Travel Partner
Anonymous wrote:SIL (~35 years old, married to my brother for 7 years, mother of 4 kids) regularly travels out of town and camps with a similarly aged, unmarried male firefighter friend for 1-2 weeks at a time. Just the two of them.
Everyone I explain this to immediately thinks affair. Thoughts?
Why do you have to explain this to anyone?
Anonymous
09/29/2023 16:04
Subject: SIL Travel Partner
Gossiping busy body is the first thing that stood out to me from this post and everyone I shared it with immediately agreed.
Anonymous
09/29/2023 16:02
Subject: SIL Travel Partner
LOL - You know you are going to be skewered for gossiping to 'everyone' about your SIL, right? Apparently your brother knows already. What is your role, exactly?
Anonymous
09/29/2023 16:00
Subject: SIL Travel Partner
SIL (~35 years old, married to my brother for 7 years, mother of 4 kids) regularly travels out of town and camps with a similarly aged, unmarried male firefighter friend for 1-2 weeks at a time. Just the two of them.
Everyone I explain this to immediately thinks affair. Thoughts?
Everyone I explain this to immediately thinks affair. Thoughts?