I think a lot of these are not high beams, they're just the eye-killing LED lights.
https://www.nbcnews.com/news/us-news/blinded-light-american-headlight-safety-lags-years-countries-rcna82666
Can I add on to this post to PLEASE make sure your lights are actually on? I'm in Loudoun and the number of cars driving without lights on IN THE DARK astounds me.