I have an extensive to read list on goodreads and an extensive want to read tag on libby. I am in a book club, and I look at what books people like here and in the Peloton Moms Book Club on FB - and I talk to my friends in real life about what books they're reading.
I don't love the prize lists - I think those are too intellectual for me, so luckily I loved Demon Copperhead BEFORE it won any awards
I have authors I like, and I read their new releases, and if a lot of people are really talking about a book and I think I might be interested in the topic, I check it out.
I don't like reading other people's reviews of books before I read it - I don't want any spoilers. I look at the general topic of the book on Goodreads, but not really more than that. I like reading on my kindle now, and sometimes I read the intro samples to books and see what "grabs" me before I decide.