Anonymous
09/07/2023 21:58
Subject: Whenever we vacation with in laws
Make your own trips. Why are you wasting your life away vacationing with them? Life is too short!
Anonymous
09/07/2023 21:29
Subject: Whenever we vacation with in laws
Rent your own place.
Anonymous
09/07/2023 20:00
Subject: Whenever we vacation with in laws
Anonymous wrote:Dh and I always get assigned the “lesser” room. If we are renting a beach house, DHs parents and his sister and BIL will take the two nice rooms with king/queen beds and leave the twin beds room or the attic for us.
Every single time.
They usually arrive earlier and have already claimed the rooms by the time we have arrived.
DH thinks it’s NBD and I think it’s disrespectful.
Traveling w in laws isn’t vacation. I made this clear before marrying. Visiting or spending time w family is spending time w family and involves some form of inconvenience and disappointment. Vacation is vacation.
Anonymous
09/07/2023 19:53
Subject: Whenever we vacation with in laws
commit to not going next year. if you husband wants to go without you, fine.
Anonymous
09/07/2023 19:50
Subject: Whenever we vacation with in laws
Anonymous wrote:Who is paying?
+1. You know if OP was paying an equal share as the others she definitely would have said so in her post. I highly suspect OP is looking a gift horse right in the mouth.
Anonymous
09/07/2023 19:06
Subject: Whenever we vacation with in laws
Do they share their food with you? Does your dog go hungry the whole time?
Anonymous
09/07/2023 19:03
Subject: Whenever we vacation with in laws
Who is paying?
BECORE commuting to dates next time, say you want a room with a queen bed (or whatever your preference is) or you won’t be joining them this time. This is of course if and only if you are paying an equal share.
BECORE commuting to dates next time, say you want a room with a queen bed (or whatever your preference is) or you won’t be joining them this time. This is of course if and only if you are paying an equal share.
Anonymous
09/07/2023 19:01
Subject: Whenever we vacation with in laws
Get there earlier.
Anonymous
09/07/2023 18:55
Subject: Whenever we vacation with in laws
Stop going on vacation with them. Problem solved. Or rent your own place nearby.
Anonymous
09/07/2023 18:53
Subject: Whenever we vacation with in laws
Who is paying?
Anonymous
09/07/2023 18:52
Subject: Whenever we vacation with in laws
This happens because they’re footing the bill and you guys are freeloading. Start helping with the rental costs and responsibilities and you’ll get offered a better room.
Your husband isn’t rocking the boat bc he’s enjoying these free trips.
Your husband isn’t rocking the boat bc he’s enjoying these free trips.
Anonymous
09/07/2023 18:45
Subject: Whenever we vacation with in laws
These people suck. Just get one of those mattress pads that turn two twins into one queen & know that they are horrible people. Don't start a fight unless you just don't want to go on vacation with them.
Anonymous
09/07/2023 18:38
Subject: Whenever we vacation with in laws
So get there earlier and claim the nicer room and let BIL take the twin beds.
Anonymous
09/07/2023 18:37
Subject: Whenever we vacation with in laws
Why don’t you lobby for a house with adequate rooms for all parties?
Anonymous
09/07/2023 18:31
Subject: Whenever we vacation with in laws
Dh and I always get assigned the “lesser” room. If we are renting a beach house, DHs parents and his sister and BIL will take the two nice rooms with king/queen beds and leave the twin beds room or the attic for us.
Every single time.
They usually arrive earlier and have already claimed the rooms by the time we have arrived.
DH thinks it’s NBD and I think it’s disrespectful.
Every single time.
They usually arrive earlier and have already claimed the rooms by the time we have arrived.
DH thinks it’s NBD and I think it’s disrespectful.