Anonymous wrote:We just let our 13-year-old 8th grader get a second ear piercing. I don't think it's a big deal and was happy it wasn't her nose

. We're kind of strict with other things like she's not allowed to wear mid-drift shirts or some other clothes I see other kids her age wearing.
I think kids have such little control why sweat some of the less minor things like a second ear piercing. We went with Claires but did buy 14k gold earring which cost a bit more.
This is us, piercings are not a big deal to me. I’m pretty sure my daughter got second at 12, third at 13-14.
She’s now 17 with a few more (moved past lobes now) and her nose. What I care about is getting them done well and safe so we’ve been going to a highly recommended tattoo place (Bethesda Tattoo). They can always come out.
Also OP, this thread goes around a lot, you can search for recent threads. I know I’ve answered multiple times.