Anonymous wrote:15:14, what do you find meaningful and fulfilling in your life?
My few close friendships, my dog, my (young adult) kids, traveling, fixing up my backyard garden, trying new recipes, and attending workshops at my local Buddhist temple. I had all of these things when I was married, though, with the exception of the workshops at the Buddhist temple. Having a meaningful and fulfilling life was never dependent on my ex. I'm 53, and I haven't been single since I was in my mid 20's. This feels different, and I like it. I don't want to marry again, but unlike the OP I would never say "never". I probably should have clarified that.