Anonymous
08/12/2023 20:38
Subject: Re:Always fun to see a group of your friends
Ugh, OP that's the worst feeling, I'm so sorry. I hope you have fun things to do this weekend. Those ladies don't deserve your fun self!
Anonymous
08/12/2023 20:36
Subject: Re:Always fun to see a group of your friends
Mean girls in my neighborhood did this. The Queen Bee kicked me out and I later saw social media posts and tagging for weekend parties to which I was no longer invited.
I unfollowed them all to avoid seeing the posts and set about nurturing friendships with non-aholes.
Queen Bee kicked out a few other people after me and even shut off access to her children to those people’s kids! Their kids had been friends and now the left out kids wondered why they could not see their friends at these gatherings.
I felt miserable yet did feel a bit better when I learned I was not the only one kicked out.
I basically cut out every woman “close” to her to save myself the mental anguish.
Queen Bee moved away. Another woman moved away.
The problem took care of itself.
Play the long game. You will win.
I unfollowed them all to avoid seeing the posts and set about nurturing friendships with non-aholes.
Queen Bee kicked out a few other people after me and even shut off access to her children to those people’s kids! Their kids had been friends and now the left out kids wondered why they could not see their friends at these gatherings.
I felt miserable yet did feel a bit better when I learned I was not the only one kicked out.
I basically cut out every woman “close” to her to save myself the mental anguish.
Queen Bee moved away. Another woman moved away.
The problem took care of itself.
Play the long game. You will win.
Anonymous
08/12/2023 20:18
Subject: Always fun to see a group of your friends
You should comment with a photoshopped version of yourself doing something cool !
Anonymous
08/12/2023 20:15
Subject: Always fun to see a group of your friends
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Plan a weekend you're included in?
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I used to hate advice like this. However, I am now a strong proponent of make the party where you are! Nothing kills an exclusionist than inclusive fun!
Anonymous
08/12/2023 19:54
Subject: Always fun to see a group of your friends
Do you live near them, OP? It’s hard to plan girls weekends when people live far apart.
Anonymous
08/12/2023 19:49
Subject: Always fun to see a group of your friends
Anonymous wrote:This is why I’m glad I don’t have social media and I don’t have that many friends.
Deleted my FB and Insta several months ago. This post reminds me of one of the reasons why.
Anonymous
08/12/2023 19:47
Subject: Always fun to see a group of your friends
This is why I’m glad I don’t have social media and I don’t have that many friends.
Anonymous
08/12/2023 19:41
Subject: Always fun to see a group of your friends
Anonymous wrote:Plan a weekend you're included in?
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Anonymous
08/12/2023 19:13
Subject: Always fun to see a group of your friends
Plan a weekend you're included in?
Anonymous
08/12/2023 19:10
Subject: Always fun to see a group of your friends
That sucks. Are they very close friends? Child free? I get excluded a lot because I have a kid and they don’t. Plus, I don’t get wild and crazy anymore so not as much fun.
Anonymous
08/12/2023 18:57
Subject: Always fun to see a group of your friends
That would really hurt my feelings, ugh. I’m sorry OP! Is this new behavior or maybe a realization these people aren’t as nice as they seem?
Anonymous
08/12/2023 18:28
Subject: Always fun to see a group of your friends
I'm on a group text with friends in another state who are constantly making plans together that (obviously) don't include me.
it does suck.
it does suck.
Anonymous
08/12/2023 18:27
Subject: Re:Always fun to see a group of your friends
Anonymous wrote:That stinks. I've had that happen to me. Just hold your head high and don't take it personally. Term social media off and do your own thing this weekend
Turn off social media. Not term.
Anonymous
08/12/2023 18:27
Subject: Re:Always fun to see a group of your friends
That stinks. I've had that happen to me. Just hold your head high and don't take it personally. Term social media off and do your own thing this weekend
Anonymous
08/12/2023 18:06
Subject: Always fun to see a group of your friends
on a girls' weekend tagging each other and you knew nothing about it. Always awesome, love the feeling.